[Maxim]

hi, i don't know if I'm even aloud post here because i'm not a woman but here goes.

i'm insecure about the size of my penis and i've just started dating a girl, we haven't done anything sexual yet but pretty soon shes gonna wanna do stuff.

i'm worried because i'm friends with her last boyfriend and i've seen his penis and its at least one inch bigger than mine in length and gurth and i dont think i can compete with that.

im even thinking about breaking up with her just because of the size thing and i really, really like her so its making me sad.

i'm about 5.2 inchs erect and 4.3 in gurth, do u think it will be enough to make a relationship happen or am i doomed?

thanks.

[Hopeless Dork]

What if this new girl you are dating, that you like so much... decided to break up with you because she discovered your ex gf had bigger boobs than her. You really like this girl, she really likes you... but she decides she will never measure up to your ex and ends the relationship. Um... how rediculous would you think that was? Thats exactly what you are doing.

Your penis size is average, and not going to doom this or any future relationship ... your attitude about it, however.. is a completely different story that could lead to the distruction of this and any relationship. Women don't think like men do... we aren't into you for your penis... and even if your penis is above average... thats not going to make us want to be with you if we're not into you.

Focus more on being yourself, on making her feel special, on learning what she likes to feel in bed... when you get to that point. But quit thinking about the size of your penis and her exes.

[spurzzz]

Focus more on being yourself, on making her feel special, on learning what she likes to feel in bed... when you get to that point. But quit thinking about the size of your penis and her exes.

Well said HD.

The point she makes is very important and one you should really take heed from. You really have nothing to worry about, you are not "small" as you fit in the category of average so you have nothing to worry about. How much difference does an inch make trully? If it was a 10" dong than you may have a point but even than there is nothing to say she even likes big.....

If you get her so into you that she loves and trusts you and the chemistry is there.....chances are she will not even notice the size of your penis. Get that negative mentality out and be confident in who you are. Only than will she be confident in you too.

[jns]

There is a thread that discusses penis size: https://www.womens-health.com/boards...enis-size.html

[Guest]

Read the thread. Re-read the thread. Re-read the thread. Then get over it.

[star18210]

As others have said you are average size. I have been with a guy that was about that size and still cared a lot for him. Size does not always matter. I agree that you need to focus more on learning what she likes in bed ( a lot of men do not). Become more confident in yourself if the chemistry is there make it work!