[thecute1331]

how do i know if my boyfriend cums in me? We were having sex he kept saying "i'm gonna cum" and then he pushed in really far and then after a bit we kind of ended. when he pulled out i could see his penis was going soft slowly. I'm not sure if he did or faked it. During sex he would make heavy breathing sounds say my name. (i was on top the whole time) but after he left a while later i wanted to check. On google it said to finger yourself and if any comes out then he did. I tried it and nothing really came out. I'm pretty sure it was just my liquids on my finger. How do i know if it was real or not?

[Mes T]

If he actually came a substantial amount would come out. Do you know your own bodily fluids well enough to tell the difference between yours and his?

[thecute1331]

i've never really looked at his soim not sure. I'm pretty sure though that what came out was mine.
He has texted me a few times asking me what it felt like. I dont want to say yes when he really didn't or say no when he really did. I don't want to lie to him either.

[ItsASecret]

If you did not use a condom and he pushed far into you while he was climaxing then yes he came in you. Having the climax, with the contractions of his penis means semen is going to be coming out. He will be able to say whether or not he had an orgasm while inside you. Unless he is the rare man that is able to have an orgasm without ejaculating, but that takes a lot of time and effort to perfect.

[Mes T]

He wants to know what what felt like, exactly? The sex or him cumming inside you?

A man's cum is usually unmistakeable, it's milky white with its own scent and flavor, and there's usually quite a bit of it.

Tell him you're not sure if he came inside you, and you think he probably didn't.

Who knows, he may have a very small amount of cum compared to others. But don't be afraid to talk openly about this, otherwise you'll just be guessing.

[thecute1331]

He wants to know what him ejaculating in me felt like. I've seen him cum before and he got it on his shirt so it left i giant wet spot on it. I'm pretty sure he isn't one to cum only a little. He did push far into me while he was orgasming. It look/seemed like a real one. I have tried telling him i'm not sure if it was real and when i do he gets really sad.

[jns]

I've never came in a girl where she did not have it drip out later. It's not necessarily a lot of liquid, its just that there is no where for it to be absorbed. Further, after a short while it becomes more watery with clumps in it, so it is more likely to run out. Go with your gut feeling.

[Mes T]

Why would he get sad? Just try sex again and see what happens.

[jenn89]

You may want to talk to him about his expectations and ho women experience intercourse. The vagina doesn't have a lot of nerve endings inside, so it is hard for most women to feel a whole lot during their guy's orgasm. When my fiance has his orgasm he thrusts in deeply and slows down, and I can feel his penis pulsing as he ejaculates. It's very sexy and intimate, but in purely physical terms it doesn't do a lot for me. It's not like your boyfriend is necessarily doing anything wrong if you don't get a lot out of it on the physical level.

With time you'll learn to judge better what's happening with him as you learn his reactions.