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It was already told. You fingered her roughly when there was no lubrication. There was too much friction which causes soreness which then leads to pain. No lubrication also leads to getting small cuts inside which can cause pain for several days. Do not finger her unless she is well lubricated. Keep your hands clean before you begin to finger her so that there is no chance of infection.Does Any Girls Or Doc Can Tell Me More About What Is Happening To Her?There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.Comment
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If she continues to have pain or gets an unusual colored discharge or odor, she should see a doctor in case she has an infection.
You need to learn how to arouse a woman and she needs to learn to tell you to back off when she isn't ready.
DO NOT touch or go near her labia or vagina until you have aroused her with kissing and caressing and touching her body all over. If she isn't wet there, then she isn't aroused enough yet. This is not something that can be rushed and a sexually inexperienced woman may not know what it takes to get herself really turned on. You would do well to educate yourself about this (stay away from porn that only a lesson in what NOT to do) The book, I (heart) Female Orgasm by Solot and Miller, is a good one. The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus by Violet Blue, is another. Extended Massive Orgasm by Steve and Vera Bodansky (both PH.D's) would also be a good resource for you to learn and help her learn.Comment
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