[Shun9821]

I feel like I'm lost. I feel like I have a sleeping disorder. My husband always wants anal sex. I hate it,I tried it one time to make him happy. It hurts me and with that being said he does it when I'm asleep. Its been going on for years. I've told him how I feel about but it's as if I've said nothing.I don't know what to do...I feel helpless. I know people say how could you sleep threw something like that but I do. Is there someone I can talk to about my sleeping problem? I didn't even know I was pregenant because he had sex with me when I was asleep. I have no memory of the event but I can feel the change in my body. I need help.......Who do I talk to?

[housewife]

Having anal sex with you while you?re asleep is a sexual abuse.fficeffice" />>>
He knows that you don't want it, and he takes advantage of your vulnerability during your sleep and does it.>>
Talk to a doctor about your sleep problems, fix it first>>
Before you fix your husband.>>
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[Irelandlover]

I feel like I'm lost. I feel like I have a sleeping disorder. My husband always wants anal sex. I hate it,I tried it one time to make him happy. It hurts me and with that being said he does it when I'm asleep. Its been going on for years. I've told him how I feel about but it's as if I've said nothing.I don't know what to do...I feel helpless. I know people say how could you sleep threw something like that but I do. Is there someone I can talk to about my sleeping problem? I didn't even know I was pregenant because he had sex with me when I was asleep. I have no memory of the event but I can feel the change in my body. I need help.......Who do I talk to?

I can't believe what you are saying. You need to get help with the sleep problem, but you are not giving your permission for sex and so it is abuse, some would say rape. Its awful. How can you trust him?

[PixieDuzt]

I would say get the HELL away from your husband because he is a DANGEROUS man. He is RAPING you in your sleep! And yes, it is rape! You shouldn't have to take care of your "sleeping problem". Uness you are narcoleptic then there is nothing wrong, you are just a deep sleeper. And your husband is taking advange of that trait and raping you while you sleep. It disgusts me to think that you have known about it and talked to him about it and still it continues. That is a sign of sexual abuse and you need to get away and find help as soon as possible.

[Iseult]

I agree with the other ladies. Your husband has been using your vulnerability wrought by your sleep-disorder to systematically rape you. He certainly is a dangerous man, as he clearly does not believe that a woman's body is her own. I advise you to seek medical attention, as well as legal intervention against him and hit him with the full weight of the law.

As he is your husband, I'm sure you love him, but he is a rapist, besides which, he may be causing you a myriad of serious health problems. Please put your own safety first and seek help immediately. I'm so very sorry this has happened to you and wish you all the strength you need in order to get away from him.

[soldatka]

I'm sorry sweetheart, but your husband is a pig of the first order. Instead of being concerned about your sleep disorder, he is taking advantage of it to do things to you that you would not welcome if awake. It is rape. Please get some support to get away from him.

[AngelicBunny]

housewife is right, this is sexual abuse. So is everyone else, but I read housewife's first and I do agree that this is sexual abuse. I wont question his feeling for you, but he should respect what you want! You own your body, you're the one feeling it and you're the one who should be in control of what happens to your body. I hope you get him sorted... I don't like the idea of him doing this to you!

[GentileBen]

I feel like I'm lost. I feel like I have a sleeping disorder. My husband always wants anal sex. I hate it,I tried it one time to make him happy. It hurts me and with that being said he does it when I'm asleep. Its been going on for years. I've told him how I feel about but it's as if I've said nothing.I don't know what to do...I feel helpless. I know people say how could you sleep threw something like that but I do. Is there someone I can talk to about my sleeping problem? I didn't even know I was pregenant because he had sex with me when I was asleep. I have no memory of the event but I can feel the change in my body. I need help.......Who do I talk to?

The guy doesn't care about your needs only his own, why are you with him if he is raping you ?

Why allow yourself to be mentally and physically abused ?

The psychological damage you are allowing him to do to you is terrible.

[lilly41]

Hi Shun, that is what i call a rape he shouldn't have sex while your asleep
its just not right I'm a deep sleeper to doesn't mean my hubby can do me noway i'd let him. talk to your good friend or a social worker. Wish you the best

[inquisitive1]

Hello Shun-
At first I avoided responding to this thread because of what happened to me. I wanted my response to be about you and your situation. To post this is a big step for me. I have been praying for you and hoping you'd give some sort of update and let us know if you're allright. I am in agreement with the other responses and I hope you are in a safe environment. Be Blessed!!!