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  • BruinsFan3019
    Junior Member
    • Jun 2011
    • 1

    Little feeling during intercourse?

    During foreplay, the feeling down there is amazing, but during actual intercourse, I don't feel much if at all... I'm not sure if it's because he uses a condom or my vagina isn't that sensitive (I don't use/need lube). Is there anything I can use to increase this so I feel more than I do inside?

    Any help is appreciated!
  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    Have you tried different positions or angles?

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    • jenn89
      Member
      • Aug 2010
      • 48

      There aren't a lot of nerve endings in the vagina itself. Many women need for their guys to continue to massage their clit during intercourse itself. Or depending on the position it may be easier for you to do it yourself. Instead of using your fingers, you can also try changing your angle to grind or rub against him (or vice versa) so it rubs your clit, but fingers may be easier at first.

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      • CHANDLERS WISH
        • Mar 2008
        • 22440

        Have you tried reverse cowboy? And, what are your feelings for this person you are with...You can let go and enjoy what he does to you, but if maybe you try reverse cowyboy where you can control the depth, g-spot, you can concentrate on you still using if you will him to stimulate you....whilst I guarantee he too will enjoy the ride.

        CW
        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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