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  • Maxim
    Junior Member
    • May 2011
    • 3

    Girlfriend problem.

    hey.

    i've been going with a girl for about three weeks, for me the sex is ok but i dont think i can say the same for her.

    after sex she isnt as satisfied as i am and it makes me feel bad that i cant make her feel like she makes me feel and im kinda worried she'll cheat on me (if she hasnt already) to get some satisfaction from sex.

    im not exactly experienced in the bedroom shes the only the 2nd girl ive ever been with but cud it be the size of my penis that is not doing anything for her?

    my width is about 4.3, sometimes its 4.5 - could this be the problem or am i just not very good at using it?

    thanks
  • CHANDLERS WISH
    • Mar 2008
    • 22440

    Okay welcome to the Forum.

    This is not your girlfriend she is feeling her way, seeing if all that you are, that you commit to is relationship material....Cheating? You like it she in your opinion isn't there.

    So it's chemistry on your end and her checking your worth not financially but emotionally...

    You can't view a new beginning on sex....what do you know about her?

    As for size? Go to Texinators thread, advanced search penis size doesn't matter or someone will link it.

    What maybe you are not good at ? You asked, is what do you know about her? Apart from sex?

    That's what counts

    CW
    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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    • Mes T
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2009
      • 2678

      Maxim... Ask her what she wants you to do in bed. Ask her to instruct you, show you, how to please her. All women are different. And very FEW women get "off" by having their boyfriend's penis inserted into them. You know what I'm saying? It takes something different than humping a woman to really please her, in many cases.

      Communication is key. Talk about it. Experiment. Have fun!

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      • Master Bruh
        Member
        • Jan 2011
        • 35

        Well one thing you could do is make sure she's satisfied pre-intercourse. Give her an orgasm or two before the actual sex begins which might help you out if she can orgasm from your finger you know she can have vaginal orgasm. Which yes sounds nice and all but the real issue you want to solve is intercourse...understandable foreplay isnt the mainevent which most people men and women hold true.
        About intercourse your wdth is around the average believe its 4.5-5ish which might be the issue but like Mes said communication is key so ask that big question...can you feel it, is there enough friction, might not be the answer you want but you'll know where you are. Answer that then come back to us

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