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  • hidinginthewilderness
    Junior Member
    • Jun 2011
    • 1

    Did I lose my virginity?

    Things were getting heated between me and my boyfriend, and a lot of naughty stuff kicked off, during the process of fingering me, he started jacking off and I moved forward as if to say 'Put it in' but he refused as we had no protection, but I insisted it would be fine. He went in a slight way, as it hurt me a tad but we refused to go any further, say about 3/4 of an inch inside me. He didn't break my hymen, but it stretched a little.. Am I a virgin still? Please reply..
  • rcoreyus
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2007
    • 4369

    Whether or not you consider yourself a virgin is up to you. Much more important is that you really really need to be careful - what you did could easily result in an accidental pregnancy .

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    • WildChild
      Banned
      • Sep 2008
      • 14142

      Virginity is not a prize. The old attitude of trade your hymen for a diamond needs to die. You can lose your hymen using tampons, with athletics and other activity, you may not even realize it has happened. Some women have a tough and stretchy hymen and still have it after a lot of sex.
      In general a woman who has had intercourse is no longer a virgin. Do you feel that you had intercourse?

      I second Rcoreyus, Use PROTECTION!!!!. He doesn't have to enter you to get you pregnant. Don't monkey around with this. Use condoms.

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      • Master Bruh
        Member
        • Jan 2011
        • 35

        Why yes you did. Penis in vagina = not a virgin.

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