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  • jlewis23
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2011
    • 2

    Can a you make a man ejaculate in his sleep from having sex?

    Hey all i'm new to this whole thing but i gotta find out or at least get opinions on this. I have sex with my fiance but he never ejaculates until he wakes up. When i try to make him ejaculate before he wakes up it just doesn't happen. And before anyone thinks it's against his will no it's not he actully likes waking up to me on top of him lol but anyways back to the point, is it possible for him to orgasm in his sleep without mental stimulation and just physical, he gets hard and will tense up and twitch like he's going to but never does. I have tried multiple times and still nothing. Can anyone help?
  • spsmith
    Member
    • Jul 2011
    • 26

    I could not resist reading your post, but, even as a man, I have no idea if I could ejaculate in my sleep. The only example I can think of is a "wet dream" where a man will ejaculate in his sleep, but that is based on purely mental rather than physical stimulation. I would think that physical stimulation alone would be able to cause a guy to ejaculate, but that it may vary from guy to guy. For example, I have never been able to ejaculate from oral sex, even though I enjoy it very much.

    Unfortunately, I have never had a woman try this on me, but it sounds like a great way to wake up! Much better than an alarm clock.

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      I would think a guy could, but you would possibly have to do some work to direct his dreams so he became mentally aroused as well as physically. When I have had wet dreams, they haven't been purely mental, because I have moved around in my sleep and gotten some physical stimulation.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

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