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Hi,

I met this single mom , after about a month , we have sex for the 1st time..

From that moment, I know that my penis was too small for her, it feel a bit loose, and she had no orgasm even when she's on top and we make love about 20 minutes (foreplay not count, i know the exact durations because it's about 5 songs on the TV before finaly we finish lol)

The thing is, she told me that she haven't got O yet..so I go down on her immediately and after about 5 or 8 minutes she finally got her O ...

The same thing happen in the morning, the morning sex, she got O after I go down on her ...

So the question is as the title said : Can woman live with a man who can only give orgasm from oral sex?

I mean, I started to like her, and i really like her 5 years old son ( jerry maguire thing hehehe ) , and I want this relationship build up..

and I dont mind if i had to go down on her every time we have sex... but can you women live with it ?

[Texinator]

What does this have to do with penis size? The vagina is lined by muscles that can contract to accommodate even smaller penises, so unless you're absolutely microscopic - literally - there is no problem.

Many women have a difficult time achieving orgasm from intercourse alone, and many have the easiest time with oral sex. When you're having intercourse, you could try stimulating her manually with your fingers additionally and see if that makes a difference for her.

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What does this have to do with penis size? The vagina is lined by muscles that can contract to accommodate even smaller penises, so unless you're absolutely microscopic - literally - there is no problem.

Many women have a difficult time achieving orgasm from intercourse alone, and many have the easiest time with oral sex. When you're having intercourse, you could try stimulating her manually with your fingers additionally and see if that makes a difference for her.

maybe i just have to see her 2 or 3 more times to see what happen to us before i post this question here ..... anyway, thanks

[Texinator]

You could see her ten more times and she might not have an orgasm from intercourse. It's not about penis size. She may be more likely to have an orgasm as her feelings for you grow and she is even more turned on during sex, you may just have to experiment with different positions, and like I said, don't be afraid to have either one of you play with her clit a bit during intercourse.

[PinkySweet]

My man is a large man, and hes good in bed, but even at that Ive never achieve a orgasm from intercourse. I get close but sometimes it just doesnt happen(and i dont blame him for it)... But he makes me feel great when he does oral and can make me orgasm.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

You can not make a judgement based on your first sexual experience together..

There is chemistry there or else you wouldn't be having sex with her But there is only lust at present not "love" a woman as she feels more comfortable with you "feels more" and as she falls more in love with you she "feels more"...

Instead of worrying whether or not you are good enough, big enough, as Tex said, our muscles tighten or loosen to accomodate any size but this is all new, you are new, she isn't focusing on trying to make it right, she's focusing on oh oh we are now doing it, worry about how you want your relationship to blossom in it's totality

PS: Spend a lot more time first with foreplay as well

[jns]

Hi,

I met this single mom , after about a month , we have sex for the 1st time..

From that moment, I know that my penis was too small for her, it feel a bit loose, and she had no orgasm even when she's on top and we make love about 20 minutes (foreplay not count, i know the exact durations because it's about 5 songs on the TV before finaly we finish lol)

The thing is, she told me that she haven't got O yet..so I go down on her immediately and after about 5 or 8 minutes she finally got her O ...

The same thing happen in the morning, the morning sex, she got O after I go down on her ...

So the question is as the title said : Can woman live with a man who can only give orgasm from oral sex?

I mean, I started to like her, and i really like her 5 years old son ( jerry maguire thing hehehe ) , and I want this relationship build up..

and I dont mind if i had to go down on her every time we have sex... but can you women live with it ?

Lets see, 5 to 8 minutes for an orgasm, you may be able to get 3 to 6 in during a 30 minute session. Have you tried to really concentrate on her having multiple orgasms during foreplay? If you pay attention to her needs, it will be easier for her to fall in love with you.

[oxy-moron]

Hi
It sounds like you have an honest and communicative lady and this is a huge advantage.
Try using your pubic bone to rub her pubic bone during sex. This will give her clitoral stimulation and this is what will be getting her over the edge with Oral.
Also dont be afraid to pause , pull out and rub the head of your penis against her clit for a while- then resume. There are no rules but you know what gets her over the edge so incorporate it into your love making.

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thank you all for your positive respond ...

[NancyS]

I also rarely have an orgasm solely from intercourse. I almost always require clitoral stimulation, whether oral, with his fingers, or what is probably my favorite move of hubby's...when he pulls his penis out of my vagina and rubs the underside of his head directly on my clit.

And size is not the issue. He's big. But that's just not enough, for me. I would say that 98% of my orgasms have come from clitoral contact in some way.