do women find double penetration a turn on?

[summerfuninpa]

It took some time but once I started enjoying Anal sex we started to experiment with double penetration and toys. That led to trying the real thing. Then to triple. For me, double penetration is amazing and brings me to the most intense orgasms. Adding one in my mouth,, just increases the turn on. Downfall is that I now crave double for the intense orgasm. So if you ask me, if you enjoy anal you should try slowly taking it the next level with the right people!

[PinkSandsLover]

I'm sorry gccg, that would be so difficult. Hugs.

[gccg]

That's just it. I do everything with him and pretty much anywhere... the worst part is that when he thought I might do the 3some with him, he asked his friend to be the other man. He obviously does not know that I know this. Since finding that out I told him the answer is a permanent no! He also mentioned to his friend that he thinks I hold back during sex and what that tells me is that his mistress didn't.
I know that when I accepted him back I had to put that behind us but I cant and it is driving me nuts.

[DSemcho]

gccg, I'm sorry that is happening to you. I experienced my ex husband asking me for a threesome (WWM) at least once a week for 2 years and it drove me nuts and I refused... Even though I love having sex with girls, the fact that he bugged me about it turned me away from it while I was with him. And one time we had broken up, he said the only way we would get back together was if I got him a threesome (this was before we were married) and I told him no and he could (edit) off.... He chose me. But it's hard to deal with your partner wanting something you don't, I definitely understand how that feels. But I also know what it's like to be in his shoes and want something the other doesn't. I like biting, hair pulling, and to be tied up and to be fingered and gone down on, but my hubby now refuses to do those things so to me sex right now is kinda bland.

[SexKitten]

I'm so happy to have read your post newmommy532011 as my husband and I have recently started watching porn together as he was was watching behind my back and I've been feeling all the things you have stated - inadequate, not sexy, don't turn him on anymore etc etc (we have been together for 20 years, married for 18). I have also introduced some toys to our sex life which has gone down well but there was always that niggling feeling in my mind thinking its wrong and other couples don't do this - but its good to know I'm wrong!!! I whole heartedly agree that it makes us better lovers and has brought us closer together. It is so much better to experience porn together than to be excluded from this part of my husbands life.

[gccg]

DSencho,
You bring up a touchy subject in my life right now. My husband and I have recently reconciled after a four month seperation. He was cheating on me. I decided to try and save our family and for a couple of months it was going well until be brought up this topic. He wants me to have two men, he and another obviously. He wants me to see sex as just sex and has put a wall between us since I said no.
I think divorce seems inevitable.

[gccg]

I have to agree with wild child,
I do not know why some men feel that they have to have these kind of fantasies come true or their sex life is boring.
I wonder if it's the man's insecutities

[PinkSandsLover]

Yeah, 2 men (or maybe 3!) is my favorite fantasy. I thin a woman would have to really like anal to really enjoy DP like that and I've never even tried it, though I've seen it in photos and videos. I fantasize about a "split roast," only LOL!

[sheriac5]

I have never done this act nor thought about it, but im curious on how it could be demeaning to a women that either chooses to do this or also enjoys this activity. I have always been curious of having 2 men at one time, but not in this type of way.

I find double penetration demeaning to women. Never have wanted to or fantsizied about it.

[sheriac5]

"split roast" ...I love it..lol...never heard of that term, but i do know what positions you mean , i guess being married i wont get that experience as you have

Sometimes yes. It depends on the woman, and what kind of double penetration your referring to. There's plain DP which is vaginal and anal, and there is the spit roast which is a girl on her hands and knees, with a guy in her vagina (Or doing anal) and a guy in front of her in her mouth... I've done both, and personally I enjoy them. Would I do it again? Nah because I'm married and I don't want to share my husband, so I don't expect him to share me.