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  • Lorelei
    Member
    • Jul 2011
    • 37

    Sexually frustrating relationship....

    So I've been bee-bopping around the forums and noticed there are plenty of threads and comments regarding relationships and Person A not getting "enough sex" from Person B.

    So many so that I wonder if anyone on these forums doesn't have this problem. lol

    But back to the point.... there are plenty of threads saying "What do I do?" but I noticed very few that actually have an answer.

    So here's my proposition. Those of you who have faced this problem and came up with a solution that worked, kindly post a brief synopsis of the situation before, what was done, and the situation now.
    Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important. ~Ambrose Redmoon
  • Texinator
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2009
    • 5556

    I think the most difficult part is in figuring out what's causing this in the first place. Sometimes there are relationship issues where B just doesn't feel like having sex with A. B may have some health issues that keep the sexual interest low. With women, birth control can sometimes be to blame for lacking an interest in sex. There are a few more, but it might even just be a case of person A having a much higher sex drive than B.

    Most of these reasons have a solution. It gets tricky when it's a matter of one person having a higher sex drive. Then you have to decide whether person A stays frustrated not getting enough, person B might get frustrated by agreeing to more sex, or you decide to end the relationship and find someone with whom you are more compatible.

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    • Lorelei
      Member
      • Jul 2011
      • 37

      Right right. I'm not looking for reasons or advice or anything like that. I was just thinking maybe success stories should post their success here for others to be inspired off of. ^_^
      Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important. ~Ambrose Redmoon

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      • Texasred
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        • Oct 2009
        • 1216

        Those with success stories have better things to do with their time...

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