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  • Flapper
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2011
    • 4

    Can't get enough!

    Two years ago I started going out with a guy for the first time. Although a couple of problems has caused us to split we have virtually stayed together and love each other very much. We live in seperate places now but try to meet up as often as possibe. We meet usually with about a 4-6 week interval. we started having sex at 15 and back then I felt no sexual pressure. My boy has been working hard though, in one year he worked me up from feeling nothing to very wet orgasms! Our sexlife is colourful but not too crazy and we both try to give as much as we recieve, but here is the problem; I can't get enough! No matter how many orgasms he gives me, I want more. I don't know if it has to do with meeting so often or not but it is annoying since he only has limited stamina after "letting go" wich he usually does first. Any tips?

    -Flapper
  • Ashlee T.
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2008
    • 6412

    I'm not sure there is anything you can do about a high sex drive. I think it's common for a woman to feel "insatiable" at times. I know it is for me. Consider it a blessing and just enjoy it.
    "Be what you're looking for."

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    • Flapper
      Junior Member
      • Jul 2011
      • 4

      Thanks but it isn't very enjoyable when your bed partner is snoring his head off and all the condoms are finished. if ya know what I'm sain.

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      • oxy-moron
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2010
        • 551

        His enthusiasm will wane after he has orgasmed- this is the state of things for most males.
        You could try asking him to try getting you off as many times as he can before his pleasure starts. You can even try alternating between the two of you but with him not reaching orgasm until the last time.
        If you are only getting it once a month or so you will be hanging out for it -especially if you are thinking about him continuously during the month. There will be a lot of pent up demand to be dealt with.

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        • Flapper
          Junior Member
          • Jul 2011
          • 4

          I admit that I may think a little too much about him while we arent together, I should probably get myself busy. thanx!

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          • Texinator
            Veteran Member
            • Sep 2009
            • 5556

            Originally posted by Flapper
            he only has limited stamina after "letting go" wich he usually does first. Any tips?
            He needs to focus on you first. Men orgasm faster than women, but they take longer to recover afterward. So have him give you a few orgasms before he has his. Then he'll fall asleep happy, just as before, but now you'll also fall asleep happy.

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            • jns
              Assistant Admin
              • Mar 2010
              • 8398

              Originally posted by Texinator
              He needs to focus on you first. Men orgasm faster than women, but they take longer to recover afterward. So have him give you a few orgasms before he has his. Then he'll fall asleep happy, just as before, but now you'll also fall asleep happy.
              I'm with Texinator on this.
              I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
              ...
              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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              • Texasred
                Veteran Member
                • Oct 2009
                • 1216

                Originally posted by Flapper
                I admit that I may think a little too much about him while we arent together, I should probably get myself busy. thanx!
                I think you have a perfectly healthy attitude, and you should enjoy it instead of repressing it.
                Wake that boy up and tell him it's time to get back to work!

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