[Swiftus]

Okay, it has been months since I have been away. Sorry I haven't been here... Not like you need more men speaking their mind.

For those who don't remember, I am a 33 year old married man. Wife has severe orgasm/intimacy issues where she can't clear her mind. We've had no luck with making babies for the past 3+ years and intercourse has gotten very industrial. I have decided to do everything I can to break her out of her shell and make this fun.

Since I've been gone, I've discovered my wife LOVES good romantic pornography.

Anyway. Here is something I am working on. I want to start by doing some light roleplay. We are going on a blind date. I will meet her at a restaurant somewhere and see where it leads us.

I am working on a list of questions that she will need to develop her own persona. Name, marital status, occupation... Then, some other 'items' to remember and a list of questions. She lacks deep in-depth imagination, so any help here will make it more fun. She keeps the sheet and writes me a note telling me what her name is going to be.

Is there any advice that you can give me? Are there any questions/twists that I should put on the questionnaire? Any ideas on what/who I should be?

[jns]

Swiftus, I didn't read through all of your past posts so I don't know if this has been answered: what did the doctors say about your virility and your wife's fertility? I take it you and your wife have had intercourse where you ejaculated in her in the last three years. Even with a sex life that is not often, if you time it, you should have a decent chance of having a child unless one of you two has a problem.

[Swiftus]

The fertility stuff doesn't have much to do with this. We are just very very unlucky and this is the last month we are trying IUI. We are in the care of a very good hospital and IVF is our next option.

I am seeking more help in keeping things spiced up while we work on the baby. Here is what I am sending to her:

Blind date:
You are going on a blind date.
Instructions:
Please fill out the entire form below.
Remember, you can be anyone you want to be. Never break character. Feel free to ad lib.
We are going to be meeting soon after ‘work’ so you will need to be dressed accordingly.
Try to NOT be yourself. Experiment.

Name (First only):____________________________
Where are you from:_________________________
Where do you live now:_______________________

Your Backstory:
Age:_______________
Occupation (dress accordingly!): _________________________________________
College:__________________________________________ ___________________
Marital Status?:__________________________________________ _____________
Who set us up?:___EHarmony.com_______________________________ ________
How many blind dates have you been on?:_________________________________
Do you have any hobbies?:_________________________________________ _____

Deeper Questions:
These are made to help you develop what kind of person you want to be:
What would you do if you won the lottery?:_______________________________
What time in history would you want to live in?___________________________
What shows are you watching?:_______________________________________
What song best describes your life:?____________________________________
What turns you on:?______________________________________________ ___
How sexually liberal are you?:__________________________________________
How many partners have you had?:_____________________________________
What type of relationship are you after?:_________________________________


TEAR THIS OFF AND PUT INTO ENVELOPE:
Name (First only):____________________________
Where are you from:_________________________