WE've had the best sex, and possible even more sex lately... In the past week, not so much because of stress from work, cars, finances, etc... Last night, my fiance and I had a talk about why he seemed sad. One of his reasons was that he wanted to be more open and missed our "erotic". I honestly think that our sex has been getting better. Some days it's unbelievable amazing! Long story short: I've kind of agreed on having a threesome with another girl in the future, if we ever have the opportunity to. Honestly, I'm scared and uncomfortable. I don't want to make him "sad"..I'm perfectly content and happy with my life right now.
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What are the specifics of your sex life now? How often, how much time spent, etc.?I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia -
3-5 times a week... early morning & sometimes before bed. We mix it up. half hour spent each time, atleast. (No less than 15 minutes.) It's great. (I climax every time). We've had threesomes in the past, but that was when I used to party. We are committed to eachother & are very faithful people. After putting some thought into it though, it would be fun. I'm just afraid I might get jealous during & ruin it for him.Comment
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skmo_glamour,
If your fiance wants you to have a threesome, he's asking for himself. In fact, he's cluing you in on what to expect. I would advise against it, especially if you're not comfortable.
When a man is in love with a woman and she's his best friend, he'll only want to be with her. And he'll never ask her to do anything that makes her uncomfortable. In fact, he'll only ask her to do that which makes her comfortable.
You might want to engage in introspection. If you're uncomfortable now, do not expect it to improve. He will ask for more until you realize that you're in a wrong relationship.
Good Luck,
TaosComment
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I agree with Taos on this. It sounds like he got more out of the threesomes than you did.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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If you don't feel comfortable about it ALREADY...it wouldn't be a good idea.Comment
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