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  • seansylva2000
    Member
    • Jun 2011
    • 14

    what can be done?

    I need help...i go sore whenever i have sex.This has been going on for so long and it's been hindering me from enjoying sex to the fullest with my boyfriend.Even when i try to hold back the pain, it still does not help...got any tip to help with this?
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Does your bf use enough lubricant? Is your bf rough or does he have a very large penis? Do you tense up too much? Do you orgasm once or more before intercourse through masturbation or oral sex? Are you allergic to the condoms, if you use them?
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • ---Beany---
      Junior Member
      • Aug 2011
      • 7

      Perhaps you're not wet enough. Do you spend time with foreplay? Or does your boyfriend just go in for the kill?

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      • seansylva2000
        Member
        • Jun 2011
        • 14

        I am not allergic to condom although i rarely use it and yes i orgasm through fingering before sex..shouldn't i be used to the size of my boyfriend's penis after 3years of having him as my lover?

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        • CHANDLERS WISH
          • Mar 2008
          • 22440

          You are long distance yes? So you rarely see him therefore you rarely have sex, perhaps this is more to the reason.

          In you other threads, you suggest you love him except for sex, may want to play the field, begged him to stay when he visited, sounds rather confusing ..

          Just wondering, how old are you if you don't mind?
          PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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          • seansylva2000
            Member
            • Jun 2011
            • 14

            25 years

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