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  • BriannaNoop
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2011
    • 3

    Finally considering condomless sex with long time boyfriend soon ...

    Needless to say I'm excited, but have questions:

    For those of you who have done this:

    1. What kind of birth control are you on?
    2. How young were you the first time a guy came inside you? age now?
    3. When was the last time?
    4. How many guys came inside you without a condom?
    5. Were they all longstanding boyfriends?
    6. How do you deal with car sex or a quickie if he finished in you?
    7. Has he gone down on you afterwards?
    8. Can you actually feel it?
    9. How long does it leak out for?
  • Little
    • Feb 2007
    • 4329

    1. Right now, I use LAM (lactational amenorrhea method) Before having my son (who was planned!), I was on Ortho TriCyclen.
    2. I think I was 19. I'm 23 now.
    3. Recently
    4. 2
    5. Yes
    6. I don't do car sex, ever. For quickies, a little wadded toilet paper or a pad works nicely to catch the drips
    7. Nope, at that point I'm quite done!
    8. You feel the penis twitching more than the ejaculate. It's a nice feeling
    9. For what feels like forever. But is probably only 20 minutes if you're upright.

    This was a kind of fun survey Something different that we normally don't get asked about.
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    • LanaBear
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 8373

      These questions are making me laugh. Love it.

      1. Right now, tubes are tied but before, I was on Nordette for the longest period of time, but tried many different kinds.
      2. I think 16 or 17, right now I'm 33.
      3. This morning.
      4. 1
      5. Yes.
      6. LMAO Tissues, toilet paper, or his sock.
      7. Yes
      8. Like Little said, you can feel the penis twitching which is a great feeling.
      9. Depends... If I'm in a hurry and can't catch all the "fall out", it seems like it leaks forever, but if I have the time to sit on the toilet for a few minutes, it's better. Panty liners are a wonderful thing sometimes.

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      • BriannaNoop
        Junior Member
        • Aug 2011
        • 3

        What does the dripping feel like? Is it like a period? Or completely different?

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        • stressed
          Veteran Member
          • Jun 2009
          • 1914

          1. Was on a birth control pill when I had sex without a condom.
          2. 18. I'm 26 now.
          3. Hmm... without a condom it would be... 9 months ago.
          4. 3
          5. Yes.
          6. Shower/toilet paper.
          7. Yes.
          8. Same as above, but condoms are alright as well.
          9. It depends on what you'll do afterwards. It doesn't leak if you shower, but it can for 10-20 mins without one.
          10. It's like when you are wet from arousal, but in much larger doses. It's sticky fluid.

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          • PinkySweet
            Senior Member
            • Mar 2011
            • 168

            1. What kind of birth control are you on? Im on the pill!
            2. How young were you the first time a guy came inside you? age now? umm 18? im 19 now...
            3. When was the last time? about a week ago
            4. How many guys came inside you without a condom? just 1
            5. Were they all longstanding boyfriends? yes, ive been with him a year and some months now
            6. How do you deal with car sex or a quickie if he finished in you? i usually carry wipes in my purse
            7. Has he gone down on you afterwards? nahhh... usually before or he will if he hasnt came yet though
            8. Can you actually feel it? yes! to me without a condom feels much better.
            9. How long does it leak out for? depends on how much he came and usually when i stand up lol...


            Now, Ive havent used a condom with my fiance in about 7-8 months and I take the pill regularly and I havent have any pregnancy scares. I would just say if your going to not use a condom be sure yall dont have other partners, for dieseases... Personally to me Ive used a condom with him before and I just didnt enjoy it, like how I do without...

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            • jesir60541
              Junior Member
              • Aug 2011
              • 1

              1. Implant - Implanon
              2. 18 then, 21 now
              3. A day or two ago
              4. One - my husband. I wouldn't really recommend having sex without a condom with anyone but a trusted partner, regardless of birth control. You can still get STDs, STIs, and HIV.
              5. Yup
              6. Make sure there is a bathroom around... Or use a tissue, sock, towel, anything! I won't do it if I don't have something to wipe it up with.
              7. No
              8. I can't feel it when it happens, but afterwards, I can feel it. Or maybe I am used to it... I vaguely remember being able to tell the difference the first few times.
              9. I go to the bathroom right away afterwards, otherwise a lot leaks out soon after, it's actually pretty gross. So I make sure to try to get it all out, and then it doesn't leak.
              Last edited by jesir60541; 08-11-2011, 05:57 PM.

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              • BriannaNoop
                Junior Member
                • Aug 2011
                • 3

                Tomorrow I'm gonna surprise him by wearing a skirt, going commando and just climbing on top of him.
                Its probably going to be in his car, so I obviously can't shower right away. Will this be ok, or should I really wear panties to keep the "fall out" manageable?
                If I have to wear anything, I'd rather just wear a tiny g that he can slide out of the way so I don't have to strip down. Is this enough?

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                • PinkySweet
                  Senior Member
                  • Mar 2011
                  • 168

                  just go to the store and buy some wipes to clean yourself up a little... and carry a pair of panties in your purse to put on afterwards...

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                  • jns
                    Assistant Admin
                    • Mar 2010
                    • 8398

                    Hope your bf loved the surprise. Also hope you didn't crash the car.
                    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                    ...
                    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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