Fed up with trying - Looking for new activity partner for bedroom
I have been trying very hard for 8 years now at getting my partner to engage in the bedroom. I've taken over cleaning, cooking, laundry, and everything else. I even offered to make a schedule to fit her needs. She has no interest in sex whatsoever. She used to say how great I was at giving oral and how good she got off. I've tried being nice, being supportive, being affectionate. I even got us a counselor. Heck, even the counselor who was a woman, told her she needs to make an effort. But after 8 years and only seeing her engage maybe once a year, I've decided to search for someone with a similar problem, who doesn't mind releasing some stress in the bedroom. I'm taking applications. Ohh geez, I never thought I would say that. Lol. I'm 37, blue eyes, short br hair, 6'1", d/d free and love music and movies and life. I like children and pets too. I'm a people person.
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Have you broken up with her yet? Or has she given you the go ahead to have a relationship on the side?I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia -
Erm... so you're looking for someone to cheat on her with? Perhaps you should try an actual adult dating site, instead of a help forum. Oh, and if you're not happy with your relationship, leave her, don't cheat on her.Comment
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You're justifying cheating on your partner because she doesn't meet your needs.
Frankly, I think it's bunk, but that's just my opinion.
Do the RIGHT thing and leave this woman BEFORE you cheat on her.
CHEATING on someone is never okay...ever.Comment
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