Don't try to emulate everything you see and don't expect her to respond how others do.

I can get there with no force. Just light pressure and stroking my g-spot with two fingers. Most times, he places a hand on my abdomen applying a little downward pressure. I'm assuming to push my g-spot down for a little easier access. And not all women are squirters. I taught myself to get there, but really, mentally, you have to be prepared and able to get there, almost in another state of mind.

Even though you are not much of a reader, I would recommend at least picking up "Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm". We read it together and it helps, gives a lot of tips, techniques and ideas.

I'm assuming she is sharing your quest for the elusive g-spot? I ask because we get a lot of guys on this forum who try to find it without the SO knowing about it, just wanting to see them squirt. Like I said earlier, it is as much her as it is you, she needs to be on board with it because mentally, I need to be ready for it or it won't even happen. It may be the same with her.

Thanks for your words, I'll keep in mind that....every time I have an opportunity, I'll try to find her g-spot....and ask her how she feels.....with time, love, and just being a good friend (both to each other), we'll get to experience as much closeness as possible we can.....

[LanaBear]

Don't try to emulate everything you see and don't expect her to respond how others do.

I can get there with no force. Just light pressure and stroking my g-spot with two fingers. Most times, he places a hand on my abdomen applying a little downward pressure. I'm assuming to push my g-spot down for a little easier access. And not all women are squirters. I taught myself to get there, but really, mentally, you have to be prepared and able to get there, almost in another state of mind.

Even though you are not much of a reader, I would recommend at least picking up "Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm". We read it together and it helps, gives a lot of tips, techniques and ideas.

I'm assuming she is sharing your quest for the elusive g-spot? I ask because we get a lot of guys on this forum who try to find it without the SO knowing about it, just wanting to see them squirt. Like I said earlier, it is as much her as it is you, she needs to be on board with it because mentally, I need to be ready for it or it won't even happen. It may be the same with her.

Thanks LanaBear....not much of a book reader, but I'll keep on trying....at least, she seems to be enjoying herself very much....I just want for her to look at me and think of sexual pleasure....we'll see....

I see videos where the man apply a lot of force when massaging the g-spot, like with two fingers and moving up with one hand and the other on the outside, i see woman squirting and gushing out like crazy, mine did not go crazy but some squirting showed.....not much just normal wetness.....

[LanaBear]

Some women just won't get pleasure from their g-spot. I find it extremely pleasurable and once you find it, it will get easier to locate. The more aroused she is, the easier it will be to find. Mine expands (with fluid) the more I get turned on. It's not necessarily hard, but like a spongy feeling with ridges, I think, kind of like a walnut. I'd have to ask my husband, lol.

Anyways, you may find these two books worth a read. Read them together and have fun and experiment.

Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm : A Simple, Step-by-Step Guide to Achieving Ultimate Sexual Ecstasy by: Donald L. Hicks
and
Female Ejaculation : Unleash the Ultimate G-Spot Orgasm by: Somraj Pokras, Jeffre Talltrees

Wildchild, thanks I've heard about that but never tried... right now, we are trying to find her G-spot, not easy. She seems to enjoy when trying to look for it, but don't really give her that amazing pleasure that some woman here talked about...something about a hard feeling inside the vagina right after the pubic bone...but we'll continue trying.....any advise on this?

Thxs

For me (us) with my wife is so exiting be here at this moment of our lives...she was SO conservative that you have no idea. So, being able to access her body and seeing her so crazy with pleasure is music to my ears, and magic to my soul. Thus, the reason of my question. How can I give my wife as much sexual pleasure as possible. And I get that every woman is different and that we need to communicate to find out what does it for her. However, education and flirtation is what keeps you exited as you keep in your journey exploring your sex lives.....I want to do so many things with my wife but understand that everything with time.

miky

Little, my wife and I already spent about a year crying, talking, suffering, until we were able to fix our problems and move on. She now understands that is important that she makes me feel the most important thing in her life as I do.....this had to be translated into the bedroom, which took time but today is amazing......she little by little understood that was okay to enjoy sex with me.....

mikeymikey, thanks for your words, to me would be one of the happiest moments of my life if I ever get my wife to that point.....just want her to go so crazy that she cannot longer stop herself from screaming....amazing....

[Little]

It seems that you disagree inherently with the way we run this board! Maybe you should have brushed up on the rules before you began posting. But it's an honest mistake!

The mature, civilized way we have decided to discuss sex here is in the language you might use to speak with a doctor, as mentioned in the stickied thread The Newer, Friendlier WH Rules Summary in point #4. This doesn't mean you have to limit discussion to things you would actually ask your doctor, just to language you would use if you did. Anything that reads like a paperback novel with Fabio on the front isn't a niche we encourage here.

The issue at hand, beyond the intricacies of the forum rules that one can't be expected to completely understand from the beginning, is your eagerness to share "THE way" to bring a woman to mind-blowing orgasm. Well, there is no ONE overruling way. I'm glad that what you do works for your wife, as every woman deserves to feel great pleasure, but selling it as anything other than a possible option is downright fraudulent.

[mikeymikey]

What my wife wants? Well, last night she wanted more of the same, and had me at it for quite a while, so I guess I'm doing something right.

As for 'explicit' posts, this is a forum discussing sex. The thread title is explicit, and I thought this site would be mature enough to be able to discuss explicit things, like adults should be able to do. The point of the 'vivid' explanations is to try to understand how to give our loved ones the greatest orgasm possible.

And as for egotism, ma'am I'm over 40 years old, I left my ego lying in a ditch somewhere when I was in my 20s. Over the years my beautiful wife has pleasured me in many ways, and given me earth shattering orgasms. Is it so wrong to want to reciprocate?

Finally, as for 'advertising' other sites, if we're not allowed to use 'explicit' language, and we're not allowed to 'advertise' a site with free tips, and suggestions, how on earth are we supposed to discuss sex in a mature, civilised manner?

Beam me up Scotty!!

[Little]

The sexual experience varies with each partner, even with the same partner as they learn and grow. I think the best way you can learn to make your partner go crazy with pleasure is to communicate with your partner. You never answered the question about what your wife wants?

The posts in this thread have been fairly explicit. I'm not sure what the point of these vivid explanations are. Often, female orgasm is wrongly brought into the issue of male ego. Is that the case here?

The thread also reads like an advertisement for a certain sex site whose name I've removed. Please don't mention any other site names in the future.

[mikeymikey]

..and only thinking what would do for our emotional connection is incredible..

When my wife was squirting, and gushing, the bond I felt with her was so close, it was almost spiritual. I can't put into words the feelings. Love just isn't a big enough word to explain how I felt. We are very close anyway, you know she's my wife, my lover, and my best friend, my soul mate