[keys2113]

Hi, this is my first thread.
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I?m 20 years old and I?m currently seeing a guy. We have gotten sexual and It?s all good and fine, but I know I can do better in bed. I really wanna show off, but I need help. Can anyone share some of their tips and tricks, any particular thing they do to make a man just luv you in bed?? Thanks a lot!

[summer077]

First of all you have to have confidence. Being confident in the bedroom is key. A good way to find new tricks is to get cosmo magazine. They always have new techniques to do things. From foreplay to having sex they pretty much cover everything. Go buy some hot lingere too. Theres also karma sutra, i think they have a website with techniques, positions, etc.....

[bat61]

No offense but don't take Cosmo as your guide as one or both will end up in a hospital ER. The tip I would give you is tease him! Vary what you do but tease him. You always want to leave him wanting more.......from you. Take it slow, very slow. Leave suggestive voice mails, leave notes about what your planning. This will drive him nuts.

[kermit]

No offense but don't take Cosmo as your guide as one or both will end up in a hospital ER. The tip I would give you is tease him! Vary what you do but tease him. You always want to leave him wanting more.......from you. Take it slow, very slow. Leave suggestive voice mails, leave notes about what your planning. This will drive him nuts.

100% agree with that advise. Make it take long. The longer his body is in suspense the more pleasurable the orgasm is for guys.

A couple fun tease games to play:

Rub his penis with your fingers or tongue long and slow without touching the head. See how long you can continuously stimulate him without making him ejaculate.

Sit on top with him inside you. See how long you can stay there giving him enough stimulation to keep him hard but not ejaculate.

[wifey]

hunny this is what i do, when i get in top of him i work up and down but for a few mins just work it with the tip of his penis and do it for a while than just go all the way down

[Theresa]

hunny this is what i do, when i get in top of him i work up and down but for a few mins just work it with the tip of his penis and do it for a while than just go all the way down

That is interesting....I am going to try that. Communicate to him your needs and ask him what he wants. I personally love giving BJ's all different ways and my DH enjoys that.

It is important to make him happy in bed but you also need your share. That is one mistake I made very early in our marriage and am paying for it now.

[Guest]

One word.

Strip.

[jr]

Another word (repeated): C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E!

Be confident! Don't worry or even think about the fact that you're not perfectly shaped or proportioned or what ever.....WE MEN DON'T CARE!

A woman is the MOST BEAUTIFUL thing a man has ever seen, especially a naked one, so just know that going in and tease, tease, tease! We love it.

Unless you're in bed with some cover model from GQ who's more concerned about his abs or hair then he is about you, he wants you to take your time and tease him. Play "hard" to get.

The most sensitive area of a man's penis is on the underside where the head meets the shaft (man clit), so stay away from it as long as you can. Try and admire, or pretend like you do, all of his "unit"....caress it, stroke it, jerk it and suck it.

The two of you are sharing the Ultimate gift with one another, so show him that you're really into it (confident) and want to please him.

Finally, don't be afraid to ask him what feels good and what doesn't. Men in general are "fixers" and we don't expect our partners to be all knowing pron stars.

[WildChild]

Women spend too much time worrying about what men want. All these mags are obssessed with how to drive him wild. Find one who is more into driving you wild in bed and he'll probably be in heaven right along with you.

[Guest]

Snap I just realized how old this thread was.