[sourpuss]

still nobody-
I can't believe women actually ASK you what size you are! That is crazy to me. In my whole life I have never done that! To me that is disrespectful.
Anyway...as far as what you should say to a woman that asks that...well, I would be very polite and say that it is a secret. I think that politely tells them IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!! If getting to know you means "knowing" what size you are, then they aren't worth your time.
I am also really sorry to hear you are down about so many things...I know of thought that from your very first post on this thread. If there is anything I can do to cheer you up, please tell me. If it is girl problems, don't get too down about that....there are a million fish in the sea...dumb to say, but so true. You will meet the "perfect fit" for you...in ALL aspects of love! Please keep your chin up!

My thoughts exactly! I couldn't believe that when I read it.

By the way, SN, I thought 6" was the average, is it not? And keep in mind that most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation anyways.

[Confusedman]

blessing or curse?

I always thought 6" was average according to what i learned in school many moons ago. But speaking as a guy with more than enough, to much can be a curse also. Im 11 to 12 inches and every time the wife and i do have sex, its fun, but not very close, due to i can't penatrate fully, a good 3 to 4 inchs never get in and when i try to get more in she normally screams in pain, not pleasure. also on a guys point Blow jobs arent fun sometime. So for the average guys be greatful to can work with all u have and as long as u know how to use it i would like to think any woman wo be pleased.

[Fallen1]

Im 11 to 12 inches and every time the wife and i do have sex, its fun, but not very close, due to i can't penatrate fully, a good 3 to 4 inchs never get in

I'm curious, not being able to get it all in, does this take anything away from the pleasure you could possibly have? Or does this not make a difference?


As for size, I have learned for me that it does not make a difference. It's all in how your s/o "handles it".

[anonymouswhitefemale]

As a guy who can go in to the hilt, I'd say yes, I would be annoyed if I couldn't. For a couple of reasons.

Having a massive wang is pretty good compensation though.

[Confusedman]

????

I'm curious, not being able to get it all in, does this take anything away from the pleasure you could possibly have? Or does this not make a difference?

To be honest im not sure. My wife was and is still my only lover i have ever had. So i dont know if its normal or if there is a difference

[Still Nobody]

My thoughts exactly! I couldn't believe that when I read it.

By the way, SN, I thought 6" was the average, is it not? And keep in mind that most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation anyways.

I honestly don't know, and after all the reading and research I've done, I'm pretty sure no one else knows either.
I've been all over the web and read several magazine articles, and they all state different sizes as the "average" size.

Some articles will just say it's between 5 and 6 inches, others will say it's between 4-6 inches, and I've seen others that say it's between 5 and 7 inches. Until I go to forums where people talk about sex, then, suddenly, everybody on there has 9, 10, 11, 12, or even -- yes, 15 inches.

A study done in Sept 1996 in the Journal of Urology concluded that "average" length was 5.08 inches.
Another study done in the Dec 2000 International Journal of Impotence Research discovered that the "average" penis was 5.35 inches.

My favorite study I read about was done by Lifestyles Condoms, when they went to Cancun during spring break, and measured a bunch of guys coming out of the Daddy Rock nightclub. The guys went into a private tent outside where they found magazines and stuff to help get it up, then they were measured by a team of nurses. 54% of the sample measured between 5.5 inches and 6.3 inches, coming out to an "average" length of 5.877 inches. (5.9, really)

The Kinsey report indicated that the length was between 6.2 to 6.4 inches. Kinsey did his research in the 40's by giving the men stamped postcards for them to measure THEMSELVES with. They marked how long THE MEN said it was, and then mailed it away.

So, until Madonna publishes a study, I guess I will just have to settle for my anxiety-ridden research ramblings.

[Little]

No study is going to have the same number as another; they're all measuring different men, and they can't possibly measure all the men in the world!
So I think you should take rest that anything over an inch or two can give a woman plenty of pleasure. And according to many surveys, it's girth, not width, that matters, and doesn't that make sense? I'd hate to get my cervix rammed, but a little friction's always great. I don't have to worry about friction though, because I'm teeny tiny. What use would I have for a 15-incher? 10 of those inches would go completely to waste in the event that I wasn't too terrified to have sex with the guy :P

[rcoreyus]

Many years ago car manufacturers were boasting about the horsepower of their vehicles - using inventive ways to measure to produce inflated results. Someone finally decided to ask Rolls Royce (who at that time made engines military aircraft as well as the most prestigious cars), how much horsepower their cars had. The answer was "sufficient".

Returning to this thread, if a woman wants to experience really large, there are sex toys available up to rediculous sizes, or they can try fisting (please learn how to do this before trying it!).

[SaraSmile]

I guess this could be used on my other post. are there any other women satisfied with there husbands size. Mine is very well endowed, I'm happy to say, 8 inches and girthy. Has anyone had bigger, because if you did, I dont know how you did it. I get a little sore as it is after a long night of it, I have to have a break for a couple of days. The funny thing is my husband does'nt understand why I need the break!! Whats the biggest you've had? lets have a contest!!! lol

To me, size usually doesn't make a difference unless the guy is very small (IMO). Less than 4-5 inches (fully erect) might be a problem for me. However, otherwise, it is what you do with it that matters. I have not had the best sex with bigger men, ironically. Oh, my guy is average. I have had up to 9-10 inchers though.

[andigail6]

I guess this could be used on my other post. are there any other women satisfied with there husbands size. Mine is very well endowed, I'm happy to say, 8 inches and girthy. Has anyone had bigger, because if you did, I dont know how you did it. I get a little sore as it is after a long night of it, I have to have a break for a couple of days. The funny thing is my husband does'nt understand why I need the break!! Whats the biggest you've had? lets have a contest!!! lol

I know this is silly but also kind of fun. I don't want to offend anyone but has anybody had over an 8? The man I'm with (and he was my first..and we've been together now for 5 years) he is 11 inches..not sure about girth though. Now I know some women on here might think and say I'm a lier but I don't care...he is all the man I need and then some...and I thought this topic was just for fun..so lets continue the contest