[cowboychuck]

I love giving my wife oral sex. I like the way she looks, feels, tastes but she has decided its gross. I'm surprised since I believed it is what most women want. I guess it makes no difference what everyone else thinks about it, I want to please her and if this doesn't then I don't do it. I'd like to know if most women like it or if they just put up with it?

[virgo1981]

I dont like it at all...my husband does a lil bit..and this irritates me alot..!
And this also disturbed our sex life too, we talked abt it and did some compromises..wat we will and wat will not do ..!

[hotdogg]

i love it!

[tinkerbell930]

I love it too. I wish my husband would do it more often. We have been together 3 years and he has done it maybe 5 times. I have pleased him orally so many times I can't even begin to count. I would love him to reciprocate and he always says he is going to, but never does. I don't know how to get him to do it more. I am very clean and have asked him if that is the problem. He has even said that he enjoys it, but just can't wait to "make love".
Why is it the women that the husbands love doing it, don't like it? So unfair!

[tamoun]

I am not a big fan

I enjoy it from time to time, but I don't have to have it all the time. I don't mind giving oral sex to my bf. But, only to a guy I have been with for a while though....Cause I once dating this this guy, and it was the worst experience ever giving him blow job....the first time I gave him a blow job, we were in a jacuzzi, and the second time I was about to do it for him....he just did not smell too inviting...so I never went back again....

But, as far as for me, I am very clean....I just don't really make a big deal to have it done to me....and plus some guys just can't do it.

I was with a guy once, he was giving me oral sex...my ***** hurt for days...hurt when I put on undewear and washing my self...

only once I can say for sure that I had an orgasm while getting that. it was ****ing amazing...

[cowboychuck]

I love it too. I wish my husband would do it more often. We have been together 3 years and he has done it maybe 5 times. I have pleased him orally so many times I can't even begin to count. I would love him to reciprocate and he always says he is going to, but never does. I don't know how to get him to do it more. I am very clean and have asked him if that is the problem. He has even said that he enjoys it, but just can't wait to "make love".
Why is it the women that the husbands love doing it, don't like it? So unfair!

If you think he'd like to watch some porno movies with you (I don't know any guys who don't.. but then I don't know any guys who don't want to lick ***** either) I would suggest getting a quality movie with some oral action by the guy. Dress in some really sexy lingerie; I think most guys go crazy over stockings and garters especially with the undies worn over the garters so they can be removed leaving the stockings and garters on. When you watch the oral part tell him something like: "Now that looks like a fun time, how about we do that." Personally, I'd jump at that.

[soldatka]

I love getting it, and most boyfriends have enjoyed doing it. If I'm not getting enough, I just ask for more, and if a guy isn't so forthcoming then fine, but I go on strike and they don't get their jollies either! Tinkerbell, I definitely recommend a work-to-rule. It isn't fair that your man gets his needs catered to and you don't.

[cowboychuck]

Do most women enjoy getting oral sex?

Thanks all for your input. (no pun intended)
I guess its a very personality-varied issue. In my view, its the ultimate compliment. If I had to choose just one thing I could do, I would be happy to do that and nothing else but I am more interested in her pleasure so I will just have to keep hoping she will decide its ok again.

[tinkerbell930]

I appreciate the advice. I am not interested in the porn thing. We do have wonderful love making...I have dropped plenty of hints that I absolutley love when he does it....he knows I do simply because I have a huge O from it. I also have O's from our love making too. He tells me all the time that my oral that I give him is amazing...(it should I spend tons of time because he will hold back for an hour just to feel it) my jaws kill me by the time I am done. He usually gets this AT least 5 or 6 times a month. Me? 5-6 times in 3 YEARS???? UGH.....
I don't know how else to put it that I want it more. No, it isn't something I demand, but geez, I please him all the time. We make love every night of the week...if I am on my girl thing he is STILL taken care of whether it is oral or hand. Anyway....
I think a big thing for some women not enjoying it...they feel like they might smell or you really don't enjoy it, or are too rough, like one of the posters above said....it CAN hurt if you aren't gentle.

[cowboychuck]

Do most women enjoy getting oral sex?

Only other thing I can suggest is that you start doing him in a position wher you can swing around to the classic 69 position then just park yourself on him. If he doesn't get the hint, tell him "my turn".