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Maybe you just require a little longer to lubricate than you're allowing - especially if you're only together on weekends, so you may be starting to have, ah, "penetration" before you're sufficiently aroused. Maybe you could try making foreplay last just a little longer?

otoh, if that's not it at all, there is a very good product called (I think) "LiquiBeads" that produces a very natural and very long-lasting lubrication.

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Hi :
I just found your thread. THis was so me until recently. The arousal and attraction in my head is there, and, oh boy, is it there, but down there it's like the desert gobi! I experimented with arousal gel,as the are supposed to help with this. I hav eto say I ahte all the ones that sya tingling, essential plant oils or anything like that. They either burn like or they don't do anything. But I was deparate so I kept looking. And I finally found somehting that works for me. No more desert, mor elike oasis spring! the stuff is called galaxis and I found it on amazon. They claim it's different and at least for me it is!