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  • bebylockz
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2011
    • 2

    PLEASE HELP vagina hole Swollen?

    So today me and my fiance had sex, it started to hurt when he first went in... but I wanted to keep going so he wouldn't be disappointed.

    When we we're done we cleaned up and everything, then I stood up and noticed that something was wrong down there. I asked him to look at it, and he said everything looked fine, when I looked at it I AM VERY SWOLLEN.

    It's not my lips though and I can feel it o_o it's weird... at first when I touched it, it burned but it doesn't anymore. It hurts to sit, walk, matter of fact it always hurts. We didn't use a condom so It can't be a allergic reaction... he is very large and think in that area so what could have happened? This has never happened before and me and him have had sex many times before... any suggestions on how to make it stop or what it is?

    And I don't want to go to a doctor JUST yet... Could there also be a possibility of me being pregnant, and having sex irritated it... because we've had unprotected sex before.

    Thanks
  • stressed
    Veteran Member
    • Jun 2009
    • 1914

    It's not a typical pregnancy symptom, but you should ask for a doctor's advice since it hasn't happened before. A doctor will give you something to use for such occasions and you'll perform the necessary test to make sure there's nothing wrong.

    Is it the urethra area? Perhaps due to his size and the positions you choose the urethra becomes sensitive. It could also be some kind of skin irritation that could be caused by just about anything.

    Only a doctor can tell you what it is and how it will heal. To make it stop you need at least some kind of creme for the specific cause.

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    • bebylockz
      Junior Member
      • Aug 2011
      • 2

      Yes

      it is the urethra area...

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      • stressed
        Veteran Member
        • Jun 2009
        • 1914

        It can become sensitive after rough sex, it shouldn't be serious but why not have a creme prescribed from a doctor to get rid of the symptoms? You won't regret it

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        • Elanor-Jane
          Veteran Member
          • Aug 2011
          • 211

          could be a SLIGHT urinary tract infection or thrush and the intercourse has irritated it. often if my mucus doesnt contain enough water and salt (its called hostile vaginal mucus) i will feel slight irritation. if its not gone tomorrow either go to the doc or get an over the counter steriod cream (like hyrozole (australia)) i used to use it to heal tears and thrush, or an antifungal cream. just precautions and it wont do u any harm if its not the case. drink lots of water and ALWAYS pee right after sex, and never keep ing if it hurts, as one day u might tear and it really hurts.
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