[Elanor-Jane]

i just hope its not ingrained

[Guest]

Never show your face in any sexy pic you take and send to anyone.

You tried it, he didn't care for it. Lesson learned.

[Texasred]

That sounds less like respect and more like he degrades women who "do certain things." It also sounds like he sat you down like you were his daughter and gave you a "little talk." It reeks of a Madonna-"Ho" Complex and a man who has to differentiate the women he has sex with from the women he loves. Some real growing needs to happen in his mind.

X2
This is the perfect response!

And yet I feel compelled to add something: Kodak, what you did is not in any way wrong, and 999 men out of 1000 would have loved it!

[Little]

Thanks TR! Of course she didn't do anything wrong ... but Seeker makes a good point, that if it's something her man doesn't like she shouldn't necessarily make a big deal out of it. If he doesn't like the idea of those pictures floating around, then that's many fewer photos of the OP's naked body that exist. That many fewer to possibly fall into malicious hands in case of a breakup or technological failure.

[Texasred]

Yeah, true enough, but she didn't have her face in the pic, and somehow I think the bf's objection was rooted in something else.
Especially given his comments about "hos."
Those comments sounded pretty off-the-wall, not exactly what you'd call respectful.

But to each his own, I guess.

[km13]

I have only sent sexy pictures to my husband, but he has always enjoyed them. I don't think it's "Hoe-ish" to send sexy pictures to your boyfriend, as long as your not sending them to a bunch of random men. I definitely think it's strange he wouldn't want to save them though!