[Lee_DC_S]

Hi,

Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and 3 months and sexually active for one together, only in the past 6 months has she been getting pains in her belly when I penetrate deeper or harder (I'm 8in but I don't know whether it's average)
Please please please help me figure out what's wrong so I can avoid this from happening as it stops us from having sex and then she gets really upset about it

Many thanks if you can help

[ItsASecret]

You are likely hitting her cervix. For many women it hurts a lot so obviously not something you want to happen. All you can do is not push so far or so fast and try different positions to see which ones do not hurt as much. My bf is 7 1/2 in so I know what it is like to have the occasional sharp pain from him hitting my cervix, what works for us is when we are on our sides spooning.

[Lee_DC_S]

Thankyou so much for your help, really appreciate it