[d-wall]

Help my penis is 6 1/2 inches long shaft is only 4 1/2 around but head is 5 1/4 around what do u count shaft or head size. Thanks

[LanaBear]

Not sure why I'm even responding, but this matters because.....?

[Guest]

You have what is called bat penis....no woman would care if you concentrate on them first....once they are fully aroused, trust me whatever you show them, they will like...is the same with you and vaginas....haven found one that I don't like!!

[Guest]

I have to ask the obvious...Is this for real?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

d-wall.

We all have in-securities in life, alot comes from others "bragging" but if I was you? I'd concentrate on learning the woman you are with, and what she likes and doesn't like, positions, pre-intercourse, words, expressions, kissing, holding etc, etc, because those whom brag usually have nothing else to offer and they lose..

Be a winner.

CW

[Elanor-Jane]

Look we can't give a guy a hard time for posting dimensions and worrying about his size just because were over hearing about it. Jut because it sounds like a fine size doesn't mean the poster thinks it is. I guess men and women come here for reassurance.

Fact of the matter is everyone says they don't care about size but some men meet women that do care. I must admit I was a little disappointed with my now bfs size compared to my ex's and my bf is still apparantly over average but once I realised he was a better lover I didn't care.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I guess men and women come here for reassurance.

I agree.

I also though feel as do alot of posters and it's evident in replies on this Forum that ultimately it's that old saying " not what you've got but how you use it", you've even stated that yourself above

It bothers some people, if you think about it, that it "can" be superficial to "wonder" what size/girth it is, and make your judgement on that. This is what a lot of men seem to face and it's wrong. Having said that, the message we "want to get across" and the reason there will always be " and the reason it bothers you is?" that the majority of women go for the "guy" wanting a relationship not what he has between his legs...

[Mes T]

Great point Elanor!

Seems like most women don't care, but there must be enough out there that still do, otherwise men wouldn't be coming on here posting about their size.

Before I knew my body well, I too jumped on the "bigger is better" bandwagon because it seemed all the others girls I knew held that view. But then as I became more experienced and discovered what my body needs and how it responds, I realized that frankly what I needed from a man wasn't his penis at all.

I wonder if most of the women who still do harp on about size are simply inexperienced?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I wonder if most of the women who still do harp on about size are simply inexperienced?

You may have hit something there, no pun intended

I think alot of women just think it's about a quick bit of foreplay then do your job... But, for a man, if she is not "in-tune" with him, turned on but also lustful, it would be like "no real feeling" for him, as she's not contracting her muscles, feeling him, wanting him (not his penis)..

So they "assume" dispise that word, that it has to be his size...

[jns]

Look we can't give a guy a hard time for posting dimensions and worrying about his size just because were over hearing about it. Jut because it sounds like a fine size doesn't mean the poster thinks it is. I guess men and women come here for reassurance.

Fact of the matter is everyone says they don't care about size but some men meet women that do care. I must admit I was a little disappointed with my now bfs size compared to my ex's and my bf is still apparantly over average but once I realised he was a better lover I didn't care.

What is more interesting is they (men worried about their penis size) take something that they cannot work on (the size of their penis) and obsess over it while ignoring what they can work on (their personality, their willingness to give and their skill at being a lover).