[monoliths&dimentions]

I am becoming increasingly more interested in BDSM, Mostly the bondage aspect.
Anyone out there have any advice for bondage beginners?

[Elanor-Jane]

Use something soft like scarves to start off with if your unsure as to what level of pain and restraint u like. If u want to be on the submissive end it only really works if u are turned on by having very little control. Basically I enjoy being a submissive when I feel like bdsm but I have to be feeling really relaxed and comfortable before hand and know I'm going to enjoy whatever my partner wil do. There has to be prior discussion as to how far u will go and generally a safe word is handy.

[rcoreyus]

Definitely have a safe word. (a word you say that means "really stop"). Always be sure you have a way to get the sub free. Best to have a serrated knife to cut ropes or scarves or whatever you are using. Be careful about cutting off circulation. Don't try to suspend someone with ropes - you can injure them badly unless you really know what you are doing.

So much for warnings. Once you have them tied up - teasing is fun - arouse them for a while, then stop - repeat. Add role-playing - whatever fantasy you can concoct.