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  • hawk403
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2011
    • 2

    When asleep would it wake you if your husband put his fingers in your vagina?

    I've been married for 15 years and recently my wife has started snoring in bed. I've been having to roll her over to get her to stop. The other night I thought I'd have some fun with waking her to roll over. I gently started rubbing her clit. When she didn't wake up, I put a finger inside her vagina. She still didn't wake up. So where do you stop? Last night I was able to get my whole hand (all five fingers) inside her vagina and she didn't wake up.

    My question is this, is she feeling it and is she enjoying it, or is she just sleeping right through it?
  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373

    I can't imagine her NOT waking up...

    If this is in fact a serious post, your best bet is to talk to her about it and find out if in fact she did wake up and enjoy it or if she was totally clueless about it.

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    • mommaoftwo
      Member
      • Apr 2011
      • 13

      If you would tell her about it she may say "I thought that was a dream!"

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      • hawk403
        Junior Member
        • Sep 2011
        • 2

        It's serious. She has been taking medication so perhaps it is really knocking her out. I'm enjoying it.

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        • Cyndie32
          Veteran Member
          • Jan 2011
          • 701

          i think you need to be careful. imo it sounds like there is a lack of consent. i would be angry if my husband did that to me.

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          • CHANDLERS WISH
            • Mar 2008
            • 22440

            Originally posted by hawk403
            It's serious. She has been taking medication so perhaps it is really knocking her out. I'm enjoying it.
            In my opinion that's an invasion of her personal space, she is on medication half knocked out and it's with no consent. I would call that a form of rape. Given you are "enjoying it" there really is no question here is there. I think you better re-think this enjoyment.

            No further discussion needs to be had..

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