[curvykarla]

Hi all,

I wanted to know if there are many other women that enjoy having "safe-rape fantasies"? No actual violence or pain or anything....but just as a variation of a submissive style fantasy?

Or am I in a very small minority?

If you have fantasized or played it out with your partner, I'd love to hear your thoughts and opinions on it. And importantly how did you get your partner involved in playing it out with you.

Thanks everyone!

[Irelandlover]

Hi all,

I wanted to know if there are many other women that enjoy having "safe-rape fantasies"? No actual violence or pain or anything....but just as a variation of a submissive style fantasy?

Or am I in a very small minority?

If you have fantasized or played it out with your partner, I'd love to hear your thoughts and opinions on it. And importantly how did you get your partner involved in playing it out with you.

Thanks everyone!

Hiya, I know what you are talking about, but you have to be so careful when using the word "rape" I always get concerned that some men could think that a woman think this acceptable when it is an evil wicked disgusting thing. What you are talking about is more of an "act" or "play" in that really you would want it, but like the thought of saying no... don't think that one could ever be explained to men as obviously it should be that if you say NO you mean NO... they would also need to be in on the "game"

[curvykarla]

Oh of course! It goes without saying that it's a completely non violence fantasy. I just assumed that we're all adults here( the men too )...and that you should realize it's just a fantasy. In reality it's one of the worst crimes!

That's why I said "safe"

I guess I want to know if other women out there have either that or any other type of submissive fantasies, that maybe they role-play with a partner they trust.

Thanks

[Irelandlover]

Oh of course! It goes without saying that it's a completely non violence fantasy. I just assumed that we're all adults here( the men too )...and that you should realize it's just a fantasy. In reality it's one of the worst crimes!

That's why I said "safe"

I guess I want to know if other women out there have either that or any other type of submissive fantasies, that maybe they role-play with a partner they trust.

Thanks

Yeah I know, just that I wanted to answer your thread because I know exactly what you are talking about but didn't want people to get the wrong idea. Particularly as these forums seem to be attracting more and more men! I like the thought of my partner taking complete control, or forcing me to do things..

[Iseult]

I am also naturally submissive in regards to sex and frequently fantasise about and enjoy my partner's assertion of control over me. Those games are fun!

I know the ladies who have already participated in this thread already know this, but I would like to stress for the benefit of anyone else who may read this thread (and echoing curvykarla's statement) that the 'control' to which I refer is an illusion: My partner can not really do whatever he likes to me, regardless of my wishes; (neither would he ever desire to do so) I have told him what he can do and what he can not prior to sex and should I wish, he will cease immediately. I only indulge in these games once in a mutually loving and very trusting relationship and consequently have never had my trust abused.

[BloodDragon]

don't tell her i told you this but my gf has mentiond several times about a "sex slave fantasy" hehe which was, as a man a REALLLY big turn on, the best way i find to talk about these things is just be honest, my gf is a lot less open about these things than me and is very shy when it comes to it but i am a very laid back person and i understand that many people react differently about things, as should everyone. so the best way to get your partner to play along as it where, is just out right say "i want you to *insert sexual content here" if you feel comfterbale with it, but i understand if you don't want to."

*edit* it goes without saying that she is in complete confidence that i will not betray her trust as to what she does and does not want me doing to her

hope this helped