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  • rnl1990
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2011
    • 9

    My clitoris isn't as sensitive - what should I do?


    Have questions about vibrator use or loss of sensitivity?

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    I think it's from using this clit-vibrator I got a few months ago. It has 8 speeds and it's really intense.

    I feel like my clit has lost some sensitivity... I fooled around with a guy for the first time since I bought my vibrator and it just didn't feel that great. It might have been me just being nervous or because he's a new guy and isn't sure how to touch me yet.. but I'm worried.

    Is there anything I can do to make my clitoris more sensative? I know there are creams you can buy... what are some good/cheap ones?
    Last edited by Alison H.; 12-04-2020, 06:15 PM.
  • rosekitten
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2011
    • 381

    Pure Romance has a cream that I just absolutely love. They claim it has not taste, but it does have a mild flavor to it (not bad). Also, some guys just aren't that great. At any rate, maybe take a break from the vibrator for a bit and see if that helps?

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    • Mes T
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2009
      • 2678

      I definitely agree with the above - take a break from the vibrator and re-learn how to pleasure yourself with just your fingers. Then once you've gotten the hang of that, you can teach a guy to do the same for you.

      That's the danger of overly relying on a vibrator, but the good news is that it's not irreversible - just takes some patience and time.

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