[ThisGirl]

so like 3 days ago my cousin told me she skipped school to hang out with some friends and when she came back she told me she had sex and she thinks she got herself pregnant cause she said that she had anal sex & right after that, she went to the bathroom and she had his sperm on her butt hole and she thinks she may have wiped a little in her vagina, she took a pregnancy test yesterday and it was negative , i think she took it too soon, but she gets her period around the 15th 20's every month & she had sex on the 5th, she tells me she was abdominal pain and that shes been bleeding a little ever since she had sex, what should we do ? please help !

[kristalyn_04]

It's extremely unlikely that she would get pregnant from a bit of semen touching her vagina. Possible? Yes. But likely? No. A vagina is a very inhospitable environment for sperm, the little bit that may have gotten in there is highly unlikely to survive the trip all the way to the cervix. Then they would have to make it into the fallopian tubes, a long trip that a very small amount of sperm is unlikely to survive. If it hasn't yet been 72 hours, she can get the morning after pill. Otherwise, she will have to wait and see if she misses her next period, if so take a test. Bleeding after sex isn't too uncommon, and abdominal pain is not normally a symptom of early pregnancy. If there's concern she should see her doctor.

[Ashlee T.]

Your friend needs to be very careful and learn now, TODAY, that she MUST use protection whether it's anal, oral or vaginal sex.

It's very unlikely she's pregnant. Though she'll likely freak hersellf out and not start her period on time. Stress can cause delayed ovulation, or cause you not to ovulate at all, which means late period, no period, or just spotting.

Tell her to use this as a lesson learned. This is NOT something to play around with. Get protection and be responsible, or don't have sex...period.