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  • Lauraaa
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2011
    • 1

    Ejaculating or urinating?

    Whenever I used climax I ejaculated, however, lately when I have climaxed the 'ejaculation' has been the same yellow colour of urine, instead of clear, and has had the same smell of urine. Does anyone know if it is urine? And if so, why can I no longer ejaculate and why am I peeing now?!? It makes me very self conscious in front of my partner and I would appreciate anyone who knows about this to answer pleaseeee!!
  • kimm kyle
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2011
    • 1

    im not an expert but as far as i know, the fluid that you ejaculate has something to do with the spongy tissue in the vagina... even though it comes out the urethra it shouldnt look or smell like urine. maybe ur just focusing on it to much, or trying to ejaculate and causing other unwanted reactions. i dont think the guy would be to bothered if he was going to let you come on him anyway.

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    • oxy-moron
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2010
      • 551

      Some obvious things to try.

      Fist go to the toilet just before sex.
      Do pelvic floor exercises to strengthen your bladder control.
      Drink a lot more fluids in general.

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Maybe one time you did pee and now you have a mental block that stops the ejaculation, but trying very hard causes you to pee instead. It doesn't matter, if your partner is alright with it, don't worry. Pee is sterile. Maybe relaxing will get you back to before. It is also possible that the motion stimulates your bladder. Try different positions if possible.
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