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  • Sarieayala
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2011
    • 7

    Yeah it is kinda embarrassing, like sex has always been really open in my family ever since i was little my mom never sugar coated it she use to be a exotic dancer i know all about everything. I've know about the ins and outs since i was like 11.

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    • Little_Man_in_the_Boat
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 227

      Well maybe you have been put off by what your mothers behaviour ? I can only guess as to what might be the problem.

      Normally I would say the only reason a women wouldnt orgasm is one sexual trauma, or badly mated (poor techinque).

      Maybe some people I think have a higher sex drive than others, but I think that its basically comes down to how one makes love to ones partner, I never had trouble in this department.

      All or most women respond to gentleness, compassion, patience, good affective foreplay.

      If you kiss a women gently she responds, if it feels good she'll want to do it. If it feels painful or uncomfortable she wont.

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Sarieayala, does your bf spend a lot of time giving you oral sex or masturbating you? You should not be faking it as that is short circuiting your search for a solution with your bf. It sounds like sex is nothing special to you. That could have something to do with it. Have you ever been head over heels in love?
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