[Nholland]

Looking for advice, was hoping everyone could post there best sex tip thanks

[lizzardb63]

Communicate. Tell them what feels good right away. If they know you like it, they'll do it again. Never tell them it feels good if it doesn't, because they will keep doing it and it's hard to tell them it doesn't after you already have.

[ItsASecret]

You do not have to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. And do not feel bad if the other person says "well other people do it so you should like it too". You are not other people, you are you and if you do not want to do something do not feel pressured to do it.

[angelstrawberry]

I think to try new things. Be open minded

[lizzardb63]

Try as many different positions as you can...its a good way to find out what you like best...and it's fun!

[Ashlee T.]

First and foremost, protect yourself. Lack of adequate protection generates stress (due to opening yourself up for STDs and pregnancy) which in turn,can negatively affect desire.

Now for the fun part. The best sex IMO is uninhibited sex. It's the sex when you are totally into the sex, don't care what you look like in this position or that position. So do whatever you need to do in order to feel uninhibited in the bedroom. Disclaimer: I am not speaking of drugs and alcohol here. I am referring to things like shutting off the lights. If that's what you need to do to be comfortable, do it. The more comfortable sex you have, the more comfortable it gets therefore better.

[caterpillar79]

Be spontaneously sweet. Always touch your mate gently and lovingly even if it does not end up in sex all the time. Just build her up for a couple of days, and on day 3, she'll want you for sure.

[Guest]

Assuming that you follow some of the wonderful advice given previously, may I suggest two additional things?

1. Put yourself and your needs, wants and desires first (assuming you're female).

2. Buy your partner a copy of the book "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner PhD If he truly cares about you, he will thank you for it.

Being a male, I've spoken with many friends over the years who think they are "all that" when in fact, they're "none of that" and need to learn how to be a better lover.

Financial issues is the number reason couples get divorced in the U.S. and sexual issues are number 2 !!!

[Aeryn Sun]

Relax.

[Texasred]

Be spontaneously sweet. Always touch your mate gently and lovingly even if it does not end up in sex all the time. Just build her up for a couple of days, and on day 3, she'll want you for sure.

Three DAYS???
What can I do to make her want me after 3 hours? LOL!

Seriously though:
Two things: 1) Communicate (as lizzardb notes above) and 2) PRACTICE, practice, practice!
You'll likely find that the hundredth time you and your lover are together is SOO much better than the first time, and it can keep getting better after that, if you communicate.