[skirt99]

I like to let my guy know when I'm on the brink so he can back off a little and keep the party going or put the pedal to the metal and push me over the edge. And when I give him oral, although I can usually tell, I like him to let me know when he's about to finish.

Anyone else communicate like this?

[lizzardb63]

Yes. It's important to communicate that way, because then that is when you become in sync with each other during sex. That is the only way to know what to do to make your partner feel good and it benefits you, because why wouldnt you want him/her to know that so they can do it again in the future. If something feels good, I'll tell them to keep going or tell them "that feels good." And he does the same or he'll be more specific "I like what you're doing with your tongue" or I'll tell him "I like it when you raise my hips up" ect...

[ItsASecret]

I do tell him for things like oral even though I never finish (it is just not a thing that gets me going). And he does tell me things he likes even though he cums far too quickly to try anything different.

[KateA]

Every time! When I am about to finish, he pushes himself harder and sometimes leaves my legs shaking for an hour afterwards. When he is close, I push myself too. It's all about communication when you're having sex, it's about knowing what the other person likes and etting them know what you like too!

[Guest]

Yep, I tell her, even though she can tell when I'm about to...

No need to tell me because her response is pretty obvious...

[Texasred]

I love it when she tells me! Not merely so we can be more completely in sync, but because I love to hear the excitement in her voice!

And I tell her: not because it's not pretty obvious to her, but because she wants to hear it from me, for the same reason I guess.

[ohwell65]

I tell my gf with a soft tap on the shoulder. I learned a long time ago from another woman that a surprise in with me being in the wrong place in her mouth can result in unloading so it runs out her nose. Not pleasant for her she told me.

[Element]

The very first time we had sex (when I gave him my virginity), he did tell me when he was about to finish. He told me later that he did so I wouldn't feel freaked out or anything if I could feel him cumming inside of me. Other than then, we never do. We can tell by each others movements, the look on our faces. For me, I lose control of my faculties and I'm not lucid enough to speak in sentences, so I'm not able to tell him when I'm about to cum. However, during sex, we do tell each other what we do like, to not stop, God I love it when it you do that. Encouragement of pleasure is common for us.

[kira]

English generally goes out the window when sex starts or toys are being used. It's more noises, tempo, and shifting around.