I used to cum a LOT but found that after I got divorced and didn't want the chance of kids I got a vasectomy. They say there should be little discernable difference but for me it was night and day. Only rarely does my gf have to really worry about it according to her such as if its been a while between sex sessions. This thread is pretty funny. We keep a stack of washclothes in the nightstands to mop up those pesky spills right after the act versus doing the drip drip trail to the bathroom.
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I used to cum a LOT but found that after I got divorced and didn't want the chance of kids I got a vasectomy. They say there should be little discernable difference but for me it was night and day. Only rarely does my gf have to really worry about it according to her such as if its been a while between sex sessions. This thread is pretty funny. We keep a stack of washclothes in the nightstands to mop up those pesky spills right after the act versus doing the drip drip trail to the bathroom. -
Im glad this thread has been made! I always go to the bathroom afterwards and try and get as much out as I can, just standing there letting gravity do its thing but never works, its can take a day or two slowly coming out, I'm sure he comes alot more than average as there is quite abit! I do love the feeling though, I also feel pleased with myself when he has all mine around the base of his penis
he spends ages wiping it off!
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Ladies,
I have the answer to the problem! I require my husband to clean up his mess! OMG! We discovered this one on accident! It has changed our lovemaking! I had been taking his cum for years! Keep in mind I enjoy cum! I was feeling alittle wild one night and after he came in me, I ordered him to get down there and clean up his mess! He loved the taste of our combined juices! We both came again! He also has a new found respect for me and all the blow jobs I have given him! You have to at least try this once! My hubby cleans me out! I rarely have to deal with cum inside me! Although I think it is hot!Comment
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Panty liners work best, tampons are NOT a good idea, my friend did that and she had a bad infection! Peeing right after helps, showers help, but I LOVE the feeling and I love his manly scent of it (yes there's a scent...hopefully ya'll never had a bad smelling man lol sperm can smell good or bad depending on if they take care of themselves) I just love my man and makes me feel good!Comment
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I have this feeling too. And I have mixed feelings about it. In one sense I like knowing that my husband's cum is inside me. But it's also annoying too.
That being said, I get turned on by the idea of having his cum inside me along with another man's cum too...both dripping out of me at the same time.
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I've wondered if first impressions have any long term impact, meaning you enjoyed the feeling of having the guy release his seamen into you, makes any leakage seem just part of whole positive experience of having sex.
For me the first time was a positive experience. I didn't have much experience, but I could feel him ejactulating a lot of seamen into me. It made me feel mature that I could cause a boy to do that. I remember later that same day, I felt significantly pleased with myself that I had sex and nobody knew except my bf. I sat at the dinner table wondering of anyone was going to guess I had sex that afternoon, but of course nobody did. Later that evening I notice that my bf's seamen was leaking out onto my panties which I thought it was exciting, but also disappointing. I kinda wanted his stuff to stay inside me so that part of him was with me.
I think it is also how my mother found out I was having sex. I'm pretty sure she saw the stains on my panties even though I tried clean them myself. I remember her giving two sex books a few weeks after I started having sex, but never commenting on what she suspected\knew. One on puberty for girls 11-13, and another book for girls\women who were just starting to have sex. I learned a lot from both books, but the second book I found extremely fascinating because it had pictures and diagrams of people having sex (not porn sex) in different positions. Up until that point it never occurred to me that people might have sex in different positions other than the missionary position. I just assumed there was only on way to do sex. I really liked the one where the girl was ontop...lol
Anyways, leaking is just part of having great sex, and its never bothered me. I just learned how deal with properlyComment
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There are inconveniences, but it's worth it. There are ways to reduce the mess . . . make love on a towel, use a wash cloth (not kleenex) to clean up, go to the bathroom afterwards and let it drip out, have plenty of liners available. It was just a lifestyle change that I had to get used to when my fiance and I started having sex, part of being a "grown-up." It actually makes me feel more bonded to him. The relatively few times we've used a condom, I felt sort of like I hadn't really experienced intercourse . . . I missed the experience of him ejaculating inside me as well as the clean-up and the next day's reminder that something of him was still inside/part of me.Comment
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The pleasure of my partners coming inside me has always outweighed the dampness afterwards. Letting him come inside is almost a spiritual thing and the skin on skin during the sex so much more pleasurable. Condoms are for those casual one nighters and new relationships before trust and clean health is established. I love the dampness, it is a reminder of the loving...use a panty liner.Comment
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I love having my BF cum in me. For me, that event is the most intimate part of our love making. With him I can feel everything, the pulsing and throbbing of his shaft, and actually feel his streams hitting against my cervix. I know the exact instant it happens, and it feels wonderful. Coupled with the emotional realization that I am being inseminated adds to my enjoyment. He’s putting a part of himself deep inside me that is mine to keep.
Afterward, the wetness of it leaking out me is a reminder of the intimacy we shared. It’s a pleasant reminder that I’m carrying his seed inside me, which I enjoy. As other mentioned, I just use a panty liner.
I feel our love making wouldn’t be complete without me getting filled with his seed.Comment
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