[user10950]

im happily married for almost 4 years with my beloved wife, but she never got to really like sex. she is wonderfull in all other aspects just not in sex, she has no orgasm, not getting turned on by anything, is something wrong with her? is it a health or mental issue? what can i do to change it?

[demotivator]

Maybe you can change this if she had a different attitude towards sex. Otherwise, your chances are very slim at best.

[jns]

Does she allow you access to all of her erogenous areas or is she too ticklish or too shy or etc.? What have you done to try to get her to orgasm? Oral? Masturbation? Different intercourse positions? Plenty of foreplay? Does she relax fully during intimacy? Some women never orgasm, but with many others it is a matter of finding the right set of circumstances and using the right techniques.

[angelstrawberry]

So you say she really doesn't like sex. Do you have to beg her for it? Does she enjoy pleasuring you? If she enjoys nothing about it maybe she has had trauma related to sex. Otherwise, some women have medical conditions or just can't orgasm. Does she get excited sexually at all or is she reactive and sensitive down there during oral? If not she might need therapy

[DreamP346]

Is your wife very religious or come from a culture/family that is very closed off about sex? That can be a hurdle that needs to be overcome before being able to enjoy sex. Often women grow up being taught that women are asexual or that enjoying sex is wrong. She will have to deal with those feelings first.