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  • chevy
    Member
    • Mar 2011
    • 38

    Ladies please help!!!

    Ok so my problem is that even when I'm extremely horny before sex I basically don't get wet around my virgina like I used to. My boyfriend and I have waited over a month before having sex again to see if that would help but it didn't. Of course I could use like KY or something but it's still not the same for me. If you have any idea on how to fix this problem I would be ever so grateful.
  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373

    How about oral? Can he go down on you and help out? Finger stimulation? Just because you are horny doesn't mean sex needs to happy right away, although, yes, impatience can be a pain. But prolong it, foreplay foreplay foreplay. All else fails, just use lube, no harm no foul, sometimes you just need the help.

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    • chevy
      Member
      • Mar 2011
      • 38

      Well we have tried everything I may get wet alittle but not enough for him to just slide in. Used to he could just kiss me and I was extremely wet but now nothing works and I don't understand why.

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      • KateA
        Member
        • Nov 2011
        • 24

        I have the exact same problem. But at the moment I am undergoing some tests to check my hormone levels, the doctors think that could be why I am so dry all of a sudden.

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        • chevy
          Member
          • Mar 2011
          • 38

          Well if you could tell me what they said I would greatly appreciate it.

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          • lizzardb63
            Veteran Member
            • Aug 2010
            • 1493

            Are you on any type of birth control? It can cause vaginal dryness and the inhability to get wet. How old are you? As women age, it also tends to get harder to get quite as wet and we used to. I use lube every time and I have friends who use lube every time. Nothing to be ashamed of.

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            • chevy
              Member
              • Mar 2011
              • 38

              Nearly 18 and I was on the Nuva Ring but it caused alot of problems and I have been off of it for nearly 6 months. But since I started to get dry I also have started to get extremely tired even with 8 hours of sleep. I don't know if that could have something to do with it but I decided to just put it out there also.

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              • sallywi2003
                Senior Member
                • Jul 2010
                • 103

                I would have to say it sounds like it could be a hormone issue. I again would suggest like the other more foreplay might work if not using a lubricant is nothing to be ashamed of.

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