[Arthemis]

Hey Kelsey,
Being on top is not for everyone. My best fried used to tell me she hates being on top, she never enjoyed it and it elt just weird. There are no rules here.
DO whatever feels right!
I myself am a big fan of the doggy
Best of luck

[jamesmarshalls]

Try sideways positions,,,,

[LittlePip]

I'm not a fan of girl on top, I only do it when I "have" to for my BF, I don't get much pleasure from it and other positions turn me on much more.

The pain may be him hitting your cervix if he's in quite deep. If you want to persevere with the position have a chat first, explain your concerns casually outside of the bedroom where there's no pressure or expectation, get comfortable talking about it then when you're both in good moods and feeling patient have another go, treat it as fun not a chore or a worry! First get yourself ready, some men think you're ready as soon as they have an erection! Make sure you are really relaxed and wet, try warming up in your fave comfortable positions. When you get on top, get comfy, guide him in and make sure he is in just how you like him - the right angle, the right depth, we've all had those moments we just can't get a tampon in right for love nor money, it's hard enough on your own with a tiny thing like that! Once you're both ready try the rocking motion, very slowly and gently, it may take you a few tries to get it right and work up any speed.. Personally I prefer rocking on top to thrusting and it's one of the few positions I prefer to move slowly in.

If you think your BF might loose his erection with all the waiting try some visual stimulation, let him get a good look/access to you breasts, legs, whatever turns him on, or even a sexy video.

Reverse cowgirl is very popular with guys, and you may get a better angle that way.

Don't push yourselves too hard, sex is for fun and for love, what's the worst that can happen, you get to try something new together and if it's not for you you get to know yourself better!

Happy trying!

[AshB$]

Definitely take it easy. My boyfriend wanted to do it hard and it hurt so bad. So I think you'd be better off slow and gentle!

[Long]

Be super careful with woman on top sex as this is how most penis fractures happen.

What??

Are you serious? I have never heard about such thing!!

[jns]

What??

Are you serious? I have never heard about such thing!!

Google [penile fracture]. It's real and it sounds scary and painful.