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  • olivia123
    Member
    • Jan 2012
    • 17

    Asking question for my friend ... its about her hymen

    She never bleed first time. She is wondering.... why there was no bleeding. Something gone wrong ? She claims it was quite painful sex experience that day. Anybody else had same experience ever.
  • danceintx
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2009
    • 317

    Nope, she might have lost her hymen riding a bike or anything else as a child.
    “The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” - William Arthur Ward

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    • oxy-moron
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2010
      • 551

      The hymen might just stretch rather than tear.

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      • Goodgirl93
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2009
        • 2634

        Some girls break there hymen inserting tampons,riding bikes,horses,ect. Not all girls tear there hymen the first time during sex. No need to worry or stress over it

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        • olivia123
          Member
          • Jan 2012
          • 17

          Originally posted by oxy-moron
          The hymen might just stretch rather than tear.
          I thank you both replying. I pass on these messages to her. She still can't believe it. She is continue sex active almost a year now.She never experience a blood spot on the sheet ever. She is telling me that when they had sex first time, her boyfriend have to work very hard to get into her. It was so painful that even at one point she asked him to stop it. She thought sex will kill her that day. But it gone well after 20 minutes. She is 25 now.

          Thank you !

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