positions to slow him down

shoshannah

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positions to slow him down

02-06-2012, 04:24 PM

Hi,

Are there any good sexual positions to use that will stimulate my boyfriend less, and thus slow him down? I am able to have more than one orgasm during sex as long as he doesn't come too quickly.
DreamP346

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02-06-2012, 04:48 PM

Any time the woman is on top and he's not being active, I find the guy takes longer to climax. Also, you have more control. The other thing is to take it slow - slow shallow thrusting - and constantly changing positions without actually withdrawing

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Texasred

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02-07-2012, 07:20 PM

If your bf were to lie on his back, and if you were in the next room, that would slow him down somewhat...
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