I Just don't understand. Plzz help.
Ok. ummm well me and my boyfriend were fooling around a couple nights ago. i caught him about to masterbate in the other room so instead i gave him me. when we started to do stuff he went inside me about twice for about 2 seconds each. which i hate when he does. he said he was peranoid about getting me pregnate. and i got upset about it bc all he has to do is put a condom on. i even take birth control. he said for me to give him a min and i said ok and so he went under the blanket and started kissing me legs when he came back up he started kissing me. as i moved towards him i felt a bunch of wetness near my feet and i stoped what we were doing. aperently he went and didnt tell me or anything. i didnt even help him. He said he was sorry and said he just wanted to last longer for me. so after my confusion i said ok and started stuff up again. but he never got a condom and he never went in me. i dont understand. he said he wanted to last longer but yet he never even went in me. he just fingered me. does this mean anything?? i was really upset about it. am i wrong to be? plzz help.
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Im a little confused?
Are you upset because he came too quickly? A lot of men have that issue, maybe try come creams or something that will make him last longer, and DONT give him a say about wearing a condom. ITs either he uses one, or he gets none...[CENTER][FONT=Book Antiqua][SIZE=5][COLOR=darkred][B][I]The children almost broken by the world become the adults most likely to change it[/I][/B][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER]
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No its not that he just didnt have sex with me. he basically said he would and didnt. he just fingered me.~White Rose~Comment
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well, if he didnt last, maybe he didnt have the stamina to do so? Some guys just cant perform twice in a row.[CENTER][FONT=Book Antiqua][SIZE=5][COLOR=darkred][B][I]The children almost broken by the world become the adults most likely to change it[/I][/B][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER]
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Are you saying he went in you, then stopped, then went under the covers to masturbate himself (while kissing your legs) instead of trying to penetrate you again?[I][COLOR="Purple"]There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.[/COLOR][/I]Comment
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yes thats what i ment. after he that he said he just wanted to last longer for me (while penitrating me) so when we started doing stuff (a 2nd time for him) again he never penitrated me again like he said he was going to. he just fingered me nothing eles. i helped him to with my hand. so he did go again.~White Rose~Comment
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There is a recovery time in which guys need to physically rest after they have ejaculated. That time varies for different men, some can go a round 2 in a mere 5 minutes and some need hours to recover.[I][COLOR="Purple"]There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.[/COLOR][/I]Comment
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Does your bf like porn? Has he done this before? How long have you two been together and how long have you two been intimate?I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Sounds like a really good time to sit down and talk about it, away from the bedroom.Comment
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