[kiwi guy]

Have you ever bought or made an item that was ideal ( or an alternative) to use (safely) as a sextoy & (that it was cheaper ?) to buy than the real thing, or something similiar for exploring with it?
I admit, have done this myself: by buying a suitable set of stainless rings (in 3 sizes) to use either as penis rings or multi purpose scrotum types toys - they seem to work extremely well too.They were far less exspensive than buying them from a Adult shop.
Just reply but leave out any vivid details - thanks
If this is thread is going to cause any type of complaints etc ... (?) ADMIN, please feel free to remove it ?

[Guest]

Where does it end?

[kiwi guy]

I wll refrase my question if it's more suitable? Besides or instead of obtaining sextoys from an adult shop or website, have others (bescause of other reasons - prices / personal preferances etc?) found other items as substitutes instead which have proved just as successful? No need to go into details. Hope this is more acceptable? If not, I will find a more suitable website that allows open discussions on such type matters?
Because there are several threads more graphic than mine on this website. If people compare the amount of viewings on my threads against the objections placed - it shows a lot of viewers are interested / curious about such topics? Administrators could have closed this thread - unless they choose not to for some reason? Let them decide?

[Aeryn Sun]

No. Why? It can have health risks.
There is an entire industry for sex toys because there are certain materials that are safe to interact with delicate areas of the body, especially those that become slippery.

I think there are some things you shouldn't save money on, and things that deal with your delicate body parts would be in that category.

[BabyGirl]

Kiwi...
I believe what Seeker is referring to ( and Others) is that if you would, use the little grey/white box up in the upper right hand corner.. The one with the magnifying glass... AKA Search box..

You will see that if you put in Sex Toys, that there are 6 pages of discussions on that subject, Starting back on February 2nd, 2007 .

Put in Threesomes, there are 5 pages, starting August 29th 2007.

Fantasies.. 7 pages, also starting in 2007.

You can continue on from Bi Sexual to Gay Sex, Frigged wife or hubby , Safe sex, Protection, fear of Oral sex,
Oral sex, yep another 7 pages, also starting in 2007,

Porn... Once again 6 pages.

How to have my SO try new things ...... and so on.

I am sure that if you spend some time Researching, even in this forum, You will have plenty of Reading Material.

Some of it may answer some of your many questions in your New found Sexual Curiosity.

Because there are several threads more graphic than mine on this website. If people compare the amount of viewings on my threads against the objections placed - it shows a lot of viewers are interested / curious about such topics? Administrators could have closed this thread - unless they choose not to for some reason? Let them decide?

What your many Viewings probably show,is that people are interested in how long it may take for you to actually read the posts suggesting you research a bit more on the subjects you are choosing to think or hope are " New and Interesting Topic's".

And to possibly answer some of our Questions so we may actually be able to help you and hopefully guide you to a better place Sexually with your Wife or even within yourself .

The " Let them Decide "

Is that the members of the forum or the Admins and Mods ? As far as I can see they (Admins and Mods ) have been very Fair and Balanced, have only locked threads that are running over each other on Topics.

Also, having " Hits or Views" are not always a sign of Popularity. Sometimes it's just people seeing if there is anything new in the topic or just seeing what answers might be given, that may help them with their own problems.

I know this firsthand as I was a " Part Time Mistress" .I had 11 Pages
with 6.411 Views and only 104 Replies. Was it a Popular Topic ? Most Likely

Did almost 6500 people reply ? Nope. I bet many were just shaking their head at me. Wondering when I would ' Get It " ? lol

I Got it !!! seems to have taken Forever .

And have been here almost 3 years now, trying to help pay it forward for all those who helped me out.

So lets start over.

It is Nice to meet you Kiwi, please introduce yourself, tell us a little about YOU ( Non Sexual and Not to Graphic )

[Little]

The only admins on this site who "work" on the posts are me and Chandlers Wish. All the others listed are either defunct or on the technical side. We have both asked you nicely to share more about yourself and your reasons for asking your questions, to ANSWER your questions yourself as you pose them. Yet the next day comes and here we are again.

The way you are posting questions is incongruous with the way the forum otherwise runs. It is making other posters uncomfortable. They are expressing that and trying to aid you in fitting in. BabyGirl has explained it very well, and I feel it is my responsibility to the other members of the forum to maintain a reasonably comfortable environment to them. So please take their cues.


PS, lots and lots of search engine spiders crawl this website. Gauge your views accordingly.

[Little]

Never mind, Kiwi decided he'd rather insult his responders than take their cues. OP banned, closing thread.