[poohbear2711]

My boyfriend and I have recently run in to a problem, He has a hard time cumming during sex I've tried everything I can think of and it's never been a problem before! I've tried dirty talking, different positions, blowing him before, I've even tried giving him a massage before to relax him and he isn't jerking off so idk what to do! it's so frustrating for both of us cuz I love it when he comes in me and he's not stressed about me getting pregnant so i'm totally confused at what is going on! and we've tried talking about it and he doesn't know why he can't someone please give me advice!

[jns]

What is his general health and age? Could he have erectile dysfunction? Too much porn? Unfortunately you being disappointed will feed his mental block that is probably at least part of the problem. Is he willing to keep trying after a break in the bedroom?

[DreamP346]

Lot of times inability to cum is mostly a mental issue. He may be thinking too much about lasting long enough, making sure you orgasms, works stresses, etc. Just relax and don't make his not cumming a big deal. Continue enjoying sex and it will more than likely go back to the way it was before.

[sexmonsterrawr]

My fiance has the same issue sometimes, and its definitely a mental thing. He worries about too much at times. What I find works is stopping and taking a break and then me taking control. Usually that has helped us gl