[Guest]

hey ladies I wanted what is the ideal girth you desire from a man I semi measured mine on a 4x6 notecard and found my circular girth not width, or circumference using pi to be slightly over 4 inches note i was limp when measuring this do u consider that skinny, good bad in-between. length wise I'm between 4-5 inches limp and 8 when fully erected

[ItsASecret]

This has been discussed numerous times already, use the site search function to look. Simply put women do not care. Men can measure so a fraction of an inch, to support his ego, and we still tend to not care.

We care about how a man treats us and not how long or wide his penis is. If the guy has a big package but is a total bore in the bedroom because he thinks he size makes up for technique then women tend to disregard such men as being able to provide pleasure...because their ego may be so inflated that they ignore pleasing a woman. On the other hand a man with a much smaller penis than average may be able to provide the most wonderful time for a woman because he pays attention to her and puts focus on pleasing her in any way he can regardless of how big his penis is. It is all individual.

[Hopeless Dork]

Guys are the ONLY ones that know, think of, or speak in diameter centimeter inch dynamics of the penis. Women, not so much. I've heard some women say they prefer thick, etc but women are not really obsessed with such things. Its more about their physical attraction to the total package of a man... whether its his appearance (to her, a woman in love... her man is the most attractive guy, its not about being a brad pitt), personality, the way he makes her feel beautiful and sexy and usually a combination of all of the above that gets a woman going. The attention he pays to her body, her reactions, the focus he puts on her pleasure.. thats what women prefer. 4.3 cubic centimeters x pi = whatever is not really something I think any woman considers when it comes to good sex, penises or men in general.

[BabyGirl]

8ter, Is that short for Ate Her ?

Welcome to the Forum. I don't get on here often, as I work different hours, but hope to help you. I have noticed most of your Posts , which are welcomed here, are about sex, penis size, ways to do it .

So may I ask, Firstly, are you over 18 and legally allowed to be on a Site that Discusses Sex and other Subjects that do not need Parental permission ?
This I ask only for my ability to answer with any " Help or Advise " Knowing if you are. As my Advice would be very different to those that are Underage..

You ask about or seem new to Sexual Activities, is it a new partner, are you young (Age ) and still Learning ? Possibly Insecure in your love making or even trying to find out how to please both yourself and your partner ?

But, in answering your Question and Discussing Penis's without Advertizing or being Pornographic , and also hoping that you are of age to see this .

I believe that any one of these in our Bouquet of Flowering and making us Women Bloom, for You, Drip With our Sweet Nectar.

If you can utilize it in a way that fertilizes the Love.
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I'd start with Asking the " Men " here, that Know the " Ladies" and have learned for us, as We have Learned from Them ..

Of Course to be Safe, with you Partner. The Men come in many Sizes ..

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[Guest]

8ter, Is that short for Ate Her ?

Welcome to the Forum. I don't get on here often, as I work different hours, but hope to help you. I have noticed most of your Posts , which are welcomed here, are about sex, penis size, ways to do it .

So may I ask, Firstly, are you over 18 and legally allowed to be on a Site that Discusses Sex and other Subjects that do not need Parental permission ?
This I ask only for my ability to answer with any " Help or Advise " Knowing if you are. As my Advice would be very different to those that are Underage..

You ask about or seem new to Sexual Activities, is it a new partner, are you young (Age ) and still Learning ? Possibly Insecure in your love making or even trying to find out how to please both yourself and your partner ?

But, in answering your Question and Discussing Penis's without Advertizing or being Pornographic , and also hoping that you are of age to see this .

I believe that any one of these in our Bouquet of Flowering and making us Women Bloom, for You, Drip With our Sweet Nectar.

If you can utilize it in a way that fertilizes the Love.
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I'd start with Asking the " Men " here, that Know the " Ladies" and have learned for us, as We have Learned from Them ..

Of Course to be Safe, with you Partner. The Men come in many Sizes ..

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Im 27 i would say im still learning as when i bone chicks they are few and far in between been like that all my life and i was a one night man and we pulled trains on a couple of girls and I want to change that so that probably y u see these sort of questions from me so far I'm sure later down the road on here u wont get too much info on my penis and what not but for now im looking for honest answers

[ItsASecret]

I'm sure later down the road on here u wont get too much info on my penis and what not but for now im looking for honest answers

No offense but we do not need to know about your size after the initial mentioning, there is more to a guy during sex than size. Most guys that come in here saying their penis size down to the fraction of an inch and ask "WHAT DO YOU THINK!!?!?!" are fishing for compliments or some sort of sexual reaction. I am not saying you are doing that lol but that it has happened before on this website and we really do not fuel that fire. If you have questions about how you can make experiences better for women then great by all means ask a ton of questions we are happy to help but keep in mind this website is not about explicit answers.

[lizzardb63]

Im 27 i would say im still learning as when i bone chicks they are few and far in between been like that all my life and i was a one night man and we pulled trains on a couple of girls and I want to change that so that probably y u see these sort of questions from me so far I'm sure later down the road on here u wont get too much info on my penis and what not but for now im looking for honest answers

"Bone Chicks"... are you sure you're 27? And "Pulled trains on a couple girls"... what does that even mean? If you're trying to change how sex is for you, worry less about size and more about how you're making her feel not only physically but emotionally. It's about the whole experience.

[BabyGirl]

Well "8"

Im 27 i would say im still learning as when i bone chicks they are few and far in between been like that all my life and i was a one night man and we pulled trains on a couple of girls and I want to change that so that probably y u see these sort of questions from me so far I'm sure later down the road on here u wont get too much info on my penis and what not but for now im looking for honest answers

1) You are 27, but some of the way you talk is more like a 15-20 year old. As with Maturity and Experience, most men realize that they want relationships with Women, they aren't into " Boning " them. They want to Make love with a Woman, find one to spend their life with .

2)You say you want to change things. Well maybe if you try changing your thinking, which it seems you might be trying to do, from Boning a Girl or you and a Buddy having "Trains" with more than one Girl, Maybe stop trying to be a One Night Man.

3) Maybe get some books or read some articles on how to Woo women, how to treat them, what they want in a man, what makes them interested in you. I will tell you, one thing, probably the #1 thing women want is Respect !!! They want to be treated like a Lady, they want to be woo'd and desired and made love to.

4) The still learning and having far and few between experiences with women, are most likely because of your Attitude of " Chicks Being there to be Boned ". Start with altering your language, your mind, your attitude on Women in general.

We are not just Meat, we are not just for Sex, we are and deserve to be loved and cherished , to be held, teased,laugh with us, make us smile, look into our eyes and show us your desire, Your desire to be with us, to hold our hand, to walk on a beach, show us that it is not just sex that you are after.

You asked for Honesty and help to change. It's time to think about getting out of the Teenage Locker room mentality of how big yours is or how small, about Boning Chicks and start on yourself, on maturing and learning to respect yourself and women.

I'd bet your experiences will change, have more quality in them, maybe even find someone to share your life with and make love with. Maybe become a One Woman Man instead of a One Night Stand ..

[Jimbeau]

I'd say wider than a finger but narrower than your wrist should work okay. Women are flexible in more ways than one.

[Guest]

Perhaps another forum, maybe even a web site of a different type would better suit your needs?

JMO