[Jimbeau]

I'd like to have some playmate style pics done of my SO as she has a great figure and I think it would be really not. I'm not quite sure how to broach the subject with her and whether it would be worth having a professional photographer do it. Am wondering how most women would react if asked by their special someone. Any advice how to approach or should I just ask straight out? Should I make the arrangements or leave it up to her?

[ItsASecret]

My bf has told me it would be hot if I did, I avoid pictures of myself as much as I can so I said absolutely not. I actually said you have a better chance winning the lottery than me posing nude in front of a photographer. But I have given in and done some very simple, no full on nude or spreading the legs, photos for him (no face). So in that sense I have given him lingerie pictures in stockings and garterbelt and so forth but I am just not comfortable with pretending to be someone from playboy so I will not go that far...just not me.

If your woman does not like pictures taken of her in the bedroom then asking her to go full out naked in a room with someone else for a photoshoot could result in one heck of an argument. It all depends on the type of woman she is and you are the one that knows her best. It is one thing to be comfortable behind closed doors taking photos of your SO or vise versa but it is a whole other matter with being nude around someone else and them taking the pictures. She may be the type who loves the idea of photos if YOU take them in your house but may shoot down the idea completely of an actual photographer in a studio idea. Also I am not sure how many photographers would do that sort of thing, nude artsy photos in the woods happens a lot but I am not so sure about the whole playmate spreading the legs type stuff.

[Jimbeau]

Also I am not sure how many photographers would do that sort of thing, nude artsy photos in the woods happens a lot but I am not so sure about the whole playmate spreading the legs type stuff.

Oh when I say Playboy style I didn't mean that. I meant just more arty type nude pinup type poses. Requesting anything beyond that I'd fully anticipate and deserve a head smack.

[DreamP346]

Just ask nicely. Whats the worst that can happen, she will say no. Don't pressure her into it. Just say it the say way you are presenting it here. You think she is so beautiful, you want pictures of her, you think the whole experience will be hot, etc. If she says no, then just drop it.

I would definitely ask to do some private sessions by yourselves before getting a professional photographer. After the private session, she may realize its actually fun and be open to the idea with a professional photographer in a studio.

[ItsASecret]

lol oh ok. Well you know her best so you would have to base it off of the reaction you think she would have. Does she already like posing nude (or in lingerie) for the camera with you taking the pictures? If she does like pictures taken do you think she would be okay with being naked infront of a stranger, the photographer? If she is perfectly okay with you taking pictures then maybe you could hint that you wish you had a better camera or something like photographers have so that you could have higher resolution pictures or something...just that hinting that you would like more professional looking pictures. If she supports that idea then maybe hint jokingly that you should get it done professionally and go from there. But if the answer is no to everything then it could be one heck of a venture to get her to do anything.

[Jimbeau]

If you ever saw evidence of my photographic skills you'd understand why i'd like to have a third party do it. I also find the idea of her doing it without me there would be pretty hot. Would probably prefer a female photographer though. ;-)

[Guest]

Broach the subject "straight up" with her Jimbeau, as you appear to be a pretty straight forward guy in here.

Absolutely hire a pro to take the pics (IMO). Call around, I bet there are photographers in your area that do this type of thing...can't think of the french word for it....Budoir (?).

If not full nudes, then how about a compromise...

I LOVE mine of my SO by the way!!

[Chubby in the middle]

I'd like to have some playmate style pics done of my SO as she has a great figure and I think it would be really not. I'm not quite sure how to broach the subject with her and whether it would be worth having a professional photographer do it. Am wondering how most women would react if asked by their special someone. Any advice how to approach or should I just ask straight out? Should I make the arrangements or leave it up to her?

Hi there jimbeau
Im am a photographer and i can say that most women or men that come to me are fine after the first 10 minuets in the studio, and then they love the experience and quite often come back to try more things.
But if she is stuck in her ways it will only lead to conflict, so my advice is ask her straight and if she shows a slight interest then work with the idea in the bedroom with just you 2 and go form there. but if you see theres is no chance then do NOT push !