[Honda Dude]

First the question, then I will add some back round. Ladies will you orally please your man after he has been in your vagina ??? If so does it bother you ? Now my back round; The wife of 10 years absolutely refuses to give oral sex after I have been in her vagina, or kiss me for that matter after I have been down on her, she can give no other reason other than "that is gross". Ok im cool with that, we all have things we don't like, and I am NOT trying to get her to do it. I just wanted to know how other women feel about it, and yes, I do give her oral sex after we have had intercourse. Quite often I might add. Guys feel free to add to it too..

[ItsASecret]

In all honesty some people are drawn away from the idea because it has been inside the body, it is going to be slick with fluids, it is going to have a texture that can be gross (many people simply do not like slimy-esq textures) and the thought of licking what is normally inside of you can be off-putting. Nothing you can do to change the though if someone feels that secretions or lubrication is gross.

Personally I really do not like licking or putting him in my mouth after he has been inside of me but once and awhile I will. The only reason I do it is because he tells me it is "hot" so I give him that satisfaction but I do hate the taste. There is a definite difference in taste from him just going down on me and being all slimy and wet in the mouth because of it and the actual taste of being inside. I usually have no issue with him kissing me after he has gone down on me though, the only time I will object is if his lips are all slimy and slick I simply do not want to kiss slippery lips.

[Little]

I don't do it. I don't like the taste at all.
On the other hand, I don't ask for (or even like the idea of) post-sex oral. When I'm done, I'm done!

[ItsASecret]

Oh yeah, definitely do not want oral during or after sex. Taste is bad enough for me when it has been inside of me so I do not like the idea of him licking that same taste during or after sex.

[Hopeless Dork]

LIke any question like this, you can ask 10 women and get 10 different answers... we're all so individual on what we like/don't like. For me, Kissing my man after he's been down on me, is natural, giving him oral after he's been down on me, natural. While I may have a weak stomach with a lot of things, the exchange of tastes in the middle of pleasure is not one of them. Kissing him immediatly when he comes up, is like an acceptance- like I wouldn't have him taste anything not fit for my own consumption? lol. I just never even think about things in that way in the heat of passion though, its , to me, such an intimate moment that we are sharing everything.

[Honda Dude]

wow ! kinda makes me feel better..... maybe its something that is emphasized in porn, like anal.. and generally not a real life occurrence.

[jns]

I am like Honda Dude and Hopeless Dork on this.

[ItsASecret]

wow ! kinda makes me feel better..... maybe its something that is emphasized in porn, like anal.. and generally not a real life occurrence.

A lot of porn has to do with what does not exist in real life, that is why there is the draw towards it...it is the fantasy that has things not likely to be attainable in real life but with a quick click you can get anything you want on a porn site. However there will always be certain individuals that will do things depicted in porn, that is just the nature of difference in opinion. Everything is still subjective and will always be a case by case basis...unless it is something extreme like oral after anal, then you can likely get a high majority opinion of "no".

[Ashlee T.]

Doesn't bother me at all. I don't find the taste unpleasant at all. I like to think I taste pretty good. haha. It's really no different than what he tastes if he goes down on me. So no...doesn't bother me.

However, I have noticed that it is unpopular for some guys to want to kiss a girls mouth who has just gone down on him. I find that pretty interesting.

[LanaBear]

I actually think this is really hot, lol... I don't mind it at all, like HD, I just never think about it. There are many times where in the middle of being intimate, I will stop and start oral, I just don't think about it.