[Freddy38]

A have become friends with a guy at our swim club who I just want to pounce on on every time I see him. He has a great body and his speedos look like he is carrying a grapefruit and a thick sausage! When he gets out of the water that material is very clingy and there is something going on there that isn't ordinary. My husband is well hung but this guy looks enormous and I have to stop my self staring at his crotch.

He is nice and friendly to all the ladies but seems to give me some special attention and from time to time texts me. The girls gossip that their husbands have seen him naked in the showers and apparently its a sight to behold. I keep thinking about it. He is single but in the b years I have been at the club I have seen him with 3 women who were girlfriends at the time. I keep imaging him ejectulating over my face and body or cumming inside me. I haven't been like this with anyone else.

I really dont know what to do but think if I put the right signal out there it could be come more.

My sex life with my husband is good and we get on well but I am feeling a bit like we are just existing together and really can't say if I still live him or not ...sometimes I feel like I do but other times he seems so distant where this other guy seems to light up when he sees me

What would everyone else do in this situation?

[rosekitten]

So... you're looking for us to tell you it's okay to cheat on your husband? Do you really think it's worth ending your relationship to get some **** from a guy at your club?

[Darling]

Are you wanting an open marriage?
Or are you wanting to cheat on him?
Fantasies are fine but acting on them is dangerous. Is one guy with a nice package worth losing your husband or changing your life. Is he really worth it?
Keep to the fantasy, and work on your relationship with your husband.

[Stillness]

other times he seems so distant where this other guy seems to light up when he sees me

The other guy hasn't seen your dirty drawers.

There's always somebody else mysterious and exciting. Married people who value their commitment and their friendship with their partner won't act on it. People without integrity will cheat if they can.

I have a friend who's married with two boys. His wife had an affair with a man and really started to care for the guy. She left her husband and took her boys with her and moved in. Guess what the guy did when she wasn't new and exciting and he saw the responsibility he was taking on. Yep, he kicked her out and she had nowhere to go with two children. She had to ask her husband if she could come back home. I bet that was an awkward conversation. He let her move back. They actually do have an open marriage now, if you can call it a marriage.

[PinkySweet]

Uhhh... Cheating is so distasteful. You practically don't know anything about this guy besides "gossip" and your lustful thoughts... I wouldn't ruin my marriage over a man that supposedly has a big ****.

I agree with Stillness though.

[KMonte85]

You should take the energy your using to focus on this swim club guy, and focus on your marriage. Obviously there's something missing in your current situation if this guy sparks your fancy SO much that you're seriously contemplating cheating on your husband for him. Time to figure out what that "something" you're missing is and work on it, because I guarantee that will bring more satisfaction to you than anything swim club guy can do with his longschlong.

[DreamP346]

Having fantasies about strangers is normal. If you want to end your marriage, do so because there are marital issues. Don't end it over momentary lust because just because he had a big package, doesn't mean the sex will be good. What will happen if your husband found out about the afair? Resolve things with your husband first. Is the marriage salvagable? Can you propose an open relationship. Only once that is sorted out, pursue this other guy. Understand the fling will most likely be momentary. But can you live with your marriage ending over it?

[BabyGirl]

He has a great body and his speedos look like he is carrying a grapefruit and a thick sausage! When he gets out of the water that material is very clingy and there is something going on there that isn't ordinary.

I'm sorry , but this sounds very Teenage to me. The Swim Suit Dude knows he has a " package ". A Mature man with a Package, would wrap a towel around him as soon as he got out of the Water. He would not stand around with Girls and Proudly " Make her feel Special with a Look". What if there were 13 year old girls or younger at the Swim Meet , I am sure they would end up staring at a Grapefruit and Sausage staring them in the Face too.

Unless he's just the " Lets see how many Chicks I can Bang on the Swim Team " kinda Guy.

I keep thinking about it. He is single but in the b years I have been at the club I have seen him with 3 women who were girlfriends at the time. .

3 Girlfriends in How many Years ( your post said b in the years part )

The girls gossip that their husbands have seen him naked in the showers and apparently its a sight to behold.

Locker Room Talk ? Again Immature and Very Teenage Mentality.

I really dont know what to do but think if I put the right signal out there it could be come more.

You are Thinking about it.. And it is Wrong while you are Married .

My sex life with my husband is good and we get on well but I am feeling a bit like we are just existing together and really can't say if I still live him or not ...sometimes I feel like I do but other times he seems so distant where this other guy seems to light up when he sees me

If Sex is Good with Hubby. Buy him some Speedo's . And Get a Grip !!
On Hubby's " package".
And I think you meant Still Love , not Live him ?

I'm sure that in the Swim team Activities your Nips and Camel Toe, show Boldly when you get out of the Water. Do you Cover up ? What if a 65 year old Grandpa saw your Nips & Camel Toe and fantasized about creaming all over your face ? Would you enjoy that thought , that Lust , just by the Sight of your " Package " ?

The point here is some Modesty, some Control and some Maturity. whether Gramps was Hung or Not in his day, He will most likely LOOK at whats Offered to his Vision. But it would be hard to see through a Towel or Robe.
So Next time you see your " Friend " all Hung Low and Proud, try thinking about If it was your Father or Brother that showed off his stuff like that . Hand your Friend a Towel.

Be Turned on, Go Home and Play Speedo with Hubby...




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[Little]

Closing this thread because of the crude language in the first post. OP, if you'd like to have it edited and reopened, leave a message on my profile page.