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  • menatwork
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2012
    • 5

    Massage before sex

    Do ladies like to get some massage before sex?
  • DSemcho
    Senior Member
    • Sep 2011
    • 177

    Sometimes, but it isn't a necessary thing. It really depends on the woman.

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    • PinkySweet
      Senior Member
      • Mar 2011
      • 168

      Some women do and some don't. Just depends, all women are different in what they do and don't like.

      Me personally, I like it. Very intimate.

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      • shoshannah
        Veteran Member
        • Nov 2010
        • 228

        Massage can be a wonderful part of foreplay. I enjoy it and encourage my boyfriend to do it, not just during foreplay but other times as well.

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        • SweetPeaches
          Member
          • May 2012
          • 17

          Some do and some don't. I personally like it

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          • Peacheskreme
            Member
            • Mar 2009
            • 84

            massages are wonderful, even if you suck at it. It still shows you are willing. But if you aren't that great at it im sure you'll have signs or if you don't do it in an intimate way it might just make her fall asleep.
            attitude..it follows us around. It can be like a smelly sock or a sweet perfume. Others can tell. Be confident.

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            • jns
              Assistant Admin
              • Mar 2010
              • 8398

              Giving a massage before sex can be great foreplay. You help her relax and at the same time get in some time pressing the flesh. To get an idea of what to do, get some massages, preferably by older women from my experience since they seem to know what they are doing for traditional massaging. Take note of what they do and in what order. Try not to massage too strongly and understand that pressing too hard on the center of the spine can be painful. Since you two are intimate, you can massage her upper thighs to a point that she would be uncomfortable with a masseuse doing. Don't bend joints unnaturally far or in the wrong direction.
              I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
              ...
              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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