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  • krini
    Junior Member
    • May 2012
    • 6

    Does mastuebation halps?

    Hello,
    i have heard that masturbation in women does help but i wanted to ask if it helps in the pain,one girl has during her fist time.so...does it help?all girls feel that pain?how can be prevented?
  • PinkySweet
    Senior Member
    • Mar 2011
    • 168

    My first time wasn't very painful. The pain was so dull it didn't bother me.

    Also not all women experience pain the first time.

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    • Bug_Lady
      Member
      • Apr 2012
      • 61

      My first time was painful....only because it was a terrible experience though. I lost my virginity almost 10 years ago and I still have pain afterwards sometimes. I don't know that there is really anything you can do to totally prevent it. Hopes are that it means a lot to you and feels so good that you don't notice it. My worries are more for the awkwardness - in that way I think masturbation does help. In any case, it lets you know more about your body and what you like so that you get enjoyment out of it, too.

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      • Darling
        Veteran Member
        • Jul 2010
        • 360

        I didn't experience any pain my first time but we did do a lot of foreplay and he fingered me often before we had sex, I think this helped, also when I had sex for the first time I took control by being on top, I think this helped a lot!

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        • DreamP346
          • Oct 2011
          • 2053

          Masturbation can help you understand your body better and that will go a long way to help you enjoy sex.
          Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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